How do you keep your child growing up successful?

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Since the child was given birth,I was eager to educate him the most effective way to make him excellent outstanding. I was planning to get him charactor of successful people,such as 1)self-confidence--When he was laughed by classmates because of his fatness. 2)set up a goal--find out what kind of thing he's interested in and would address himself to do it big--except computer games,that do harm child! 3)learning give and take--I always tell him you're a big boy and you're excellent,but we should make a little progress every day--whatever you do is all right... I don't know if my words worked,sometimes we sat down and relaxed together watching TV,we talked a lot about his school things, sports things...,seems we can be good friends,but I do worry about how much freedom should I give him? He's growing up fast, and things are becoming more complicated, he's starting to think of things in his own way,but it's obviously he can't be responsible for his actions, what if you warn him too much about his behavior? Sometimes I do think I should let him take all the responsiblities about his behavior,but,he played kid cards and we helped him eventually,what will you do with this growing-up thing? Is that easy to handle for you? Please be kind and give me some advice,thanks.