Travel alone...at what age you is your first experience and how does it feel?

By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
Philippines
October 5, 2009 4:08am CST
Hello friends and dear mylotters, What age you first experience to travel all alone,and how does it feel? Did you enjoy it,or did u feel scared,nervous,...? How long is the journey? Share your moments and feelings here dear friends and mylotters. Thanks for posting your responses and have a great day always
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51 responses
@shibham (16977)
• India
5 Oct 09
hi jaiho.( do u know that "jai ho" is the first two words of a song of the latest oscar award winner movie "slumdog millionaire"?)hahhaha.... after my post graduation i went to shillong( about 250 kms) for an interview. i was almost 25 when i visited shillong. ohhh... i was afraid of for an unknown city and eventually i reached the destination at evening time. i had to stay at hotel but i were unknown about it. after some while i got a hotel which rent was too much according to my wallet. so i searched a cheper one and i got it. at the very morning i came out for interview and in the evening i returned to my home. thats the story... hahaha....
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
Hello friend, I know about it dear,"jaiho"..actually,i am a big fan of A Rahman,and i even bought a bluray cd tape just to watch the movie "slumdog millionaire" and...jaiho is my mobile caller tune too. Thanks for your response and sharing your experience here. Keep posting my friend and have a great day always
@shibham (16977)
• India
5 Oct 09
mobile caller tune?
• Indonesia
5 Oct 09
The First time i go travel alone is when i graduated from High School. I'm going to my sister's home and looking for university to college. the first time i feel nervous because i never leave my hometown alone. But with direction that my sister give make me more confident and go to her home without any troubles
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
Hello friend, Yah,i also feel the same when i first had my experience travelling alone.I feel nervous and excited.Nervous becoz of mixed emotions,and excited becoz i feel free.... I guess,first experience to travel alone is much of excitement. Thanks for your response and keep posting my friend
• United States
6 Oct 09
I was nine years of age when I traveled alone via plane from Atlanta to Denver. I had never been on a plane before, peering out a side window at puffy white clouds way ... way down there, so needless to say the experience was naturally quite harrowing. But after chewing gum on the trip to relieve air pressure that made my ears pop, and meeting a nice lady whom talked to me and often times made me laugh (as well as telling me I was a BRAVE little boy), I relaxed and didn't feel so afraid anymore. As a matter of fact, I felt like a big boy and looked forward to the return flight home.
@jhenn22 (1242)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
i was 15 years old when i traveled alone and it took me 2 days and three nights. I felt scared yet excited. It's really hard to travel alone especially if you were young. You don't know what's gonna happen to you while travelling. But because of it i was able to mingle different kinds of people. I met friends there but i don't have any contacts with them because we lived away and i guess but time i didn't have any communication tool like phone. But it is really an amazing experience. I won't forget it for the rest of my life.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
Hello jhenn, That's really cool,2 days and 3 nights all alone by yourself at very young age. I guess you travel thru ship..am i right my friend? You are very brave then,and i guess that was really exciting too. Thanks for sharing your experience here and keep posting my friend
@bodhisatya (2384)
• India
5 Oct 09
You brought back some real old memories. I remember that day quite vividly. I was to go to Pune a nearby city about a 125 kms from my home. I was to go there and collect some important documents from a very big organization. I was 15 at that time. I was so very nervous. My first visit alone far from my home. The worst thing was I didn't even know the exact location, and then I had to meet some real serious people and convince them to hand over the documents to me. It was intimidating. I was so apprehensive to start the journey. I still remember that early morning as if it were yesterday.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
Hello friend, Nice to see again dear friend. So your first experience was really exciting and adventurous. Going to a place with no exact address,i don't think i can make it at that very young age,and to talk with people for some documents...nah,that's way too brave of you and very confident too dear. Thanks for sharing your experience here my friend and keep posting. Have a great day always too!
@irene3184 (898)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
I travel alone at the age of 21 years old when I graduated in College. I traveled in a day to go to a place alone and I enjoyed it most because I find time to meet new friends and discover something new.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
Hello irene, I guess everybody loves their first experience of travelling alone.Most at very young age. Thanks for sharing your experience and have a great day always,keep posting my friend
• China
5 Oct 09
For what i can recall, the frist time for me to travel alone was when i was 22 yrs old, I was going home from canada to china, it was such a long trip, 20 some hours, 3 times flight change, one night in japan, of course i feel lonely, but it was ok, coz the excitment of seeing my family took almost all my attention.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
Hello friend, That was a real long journey,and guess you enjoyed it too thu a bit of scared and excitement was there. Thanks for sharing your experience here and keep posting my friend
@XiaoLin (289)
• Italy
6 Oct 09
Hi Jaiho20009, when I was 14, in the summer before entering high school, I went to England with my teacher and some other students from other schools, and we spent there two weeks, studing English. The first time I traveled without a group and a teacher was when I was eighteen, in the summer after the fourth year of high school. I spent 1 month in Dublin. That was the best ever. happy mylotting
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
6 Oct 09
Hello friend, Thats a good experience,away from home for two weeks. The longest day my daughter stayed away from our home is 24 hours i guess. I can't make my self at ease without seeing my kids for a day. I guess when they grow older,i can make them stay away then,for a longer time. Thanks for sharing your experience my friend and keep posting. Have a good day always too.
@XiaoLin (289)
• Italy
7 Oct 09
well, it depends on how old your child is. And I must say my mother was very worried every time I was far away. Even if she got used to my being abroad, she would still cry at the airport and call me very often. The same happened when I went to China for four months, even if I was a university student already and I hadn't been living at home for two years. Tnx for posting
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
7 Oct 09
yah,mothers are always sentimental my friend. My mom lives in UK...almost the other side of the globe where we lived in(Philippines). And she visited us once in every year,she stayed with us for 2 months,and then,everytime she goes back to London,she still cries(sad). Thanks for posting again dear
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
7 Oct 09
hi jaiho, i have not remember my first travel alone,but i remember that in the year i think 1990,i have first time traveled alone to Maldives ,on that time i have some excitement,because first time i am traveling foreign country,i know Telugu,Hindi and English so so,after going there i have managed,where i stayed 3 nights,have a nice day
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@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
7 Oct 09
hi jaiho, thanks for the response/comment,and i have traveled to Thailand and Singapore with some group of members,there are also i am exited when going to new countries,new places and meeting new persons,have a nice day
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
7 Oct 09
hello yugasini, That's a good thing you know how to speak other language aside from your mother tongue and english too. When travelling alone,the feeling of excitement makes us more confident to explore what more adventures lies ahead. Good for you my friend you were able to travel and visited some places abroad. Thanks for your response and have a good day always. Keep posting too
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
6 Oct 09
hello jaiho! how are you? well, well, the very first time that i remember i travel alone is when i am on my grade 2! hehe yes, my mom lets me travel alone at that very young age from school to our house, but its just about 15-20 mins ride...of course i am nervous coz i am afraid that i might not get home...haha what my mom do that time is wait for me on road where the jeepney stops so that she ill accompany me in crossing the street...but that's just fine with me, coz after a week i found a new friend from my class who have the same way going home, and from that time we always travel together going home...actually she's also the oldest friend i have now... then, the first time i travel alone in a farther place is when i am in highschool...i travel alone from laguna-makati...hehe again, nervous and excited, but anyway i have my younger cousins with me, that mekes me even nervous coz they are on my responsibility that time... and another first time traveling alone for me is when i am about 20 yrs old...its the first time i travel by plane alone! haha i went to cagayan de oro for a vacation...experience is great but really i feel nervous coz i don't kno what to do that time...just good that i meet few people on the airport who helps & guide me along the way...
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@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
6 Oct 09
hehe... well i have no choice that time...i guess that's my mom's way of teaching me, but anyway, before she lets me travel by myself, she gives me instructions and everyday that she send me to school, she don't stop teaching me where to ride and where to alight...hehe i know that she's also nervous on the first day that she lets me travel alone...haha you know, what just i don't like that time is that, some jeepney drivers don't let us ride in their jeepney! huh! like when we wave on them to stop, they will not stop even if there's still some seats available... you are right there, i also don't like asking for directions to other people coz sometimes, they just make it more difficult for us...that's why i also don't like going alone in a new place...huh! it reminds me my experience in makati when i am still working there...i don't know how to go to the makati hall of justice, but i have to go there coz my boss & i will meet there...waaah! i ask people where to get jeepney going there...huh! and it takes me some time before i get the right direction...huh! coz some people there just give wrong directions! and i ended up walking without direction! haha just thankful that i found one good samaritan helping me to find the right way...hehe
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
6 Oct 09
Hello ckyera, Hello there again amiga. This is very precise description of your experiences(hehehe). You are very brave to do so,travel all alone by yourself at very young age. My daughter was 10 when she started to travel by herself from home to school. The feeling of being nervous is always there when travelling to new places,and,plus factor is,the shyness to keep asking people directions.(minsan nakakainis kasi mali ung direksyon hehehe) Thanks for sharing your experiences here my friend and have a good day always
@SuzyLong (775)
5 Oct 09
My first big journey on my own was by coach from my house to Readng which was about 3-4 hours. I had to change coaches at London and then again at an airport so I was a bit nervouse about that, I was scared that I was going to get on the wrong coach and end hundreds of miles away from Reading. But everything went fine, I just kept double checking everything with the drivers and it was all fine.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
Hello Suzy, Same feeling with me,when i first travel alone. I wrote the bus number and when the bus stopped at bus stations for 10 mins,i never dare to go far,i also use the toilet very quick fearing the bus will leave me(hahaha). Thanks for your response and happy mylotting always
@harmonee (1228)
• United States
7 Oct 09
I was 13 or 14 when I first traveled alone. I was in California and had to go to a camp in Oregon. It ended up being horrible because I had a connecting flight out of Fresno that got cancelled. I wasn't old enough to get a hotel room and the next flight out wasn't until the next day. At the time there weren't any fast food places at that airport, so I was hungry and had no place to sleep. It was super lame. I survived though and now I'm old enough to do more about it if I get stuck.
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@harmonee (1228)
• United States
12 Oct 09
I'm much older now and can thankfully handle the situation better since I could get a hotel or a rental car. Thankfully it didn't scare me to travel alone again. I think I was rational enough to know that kind of thing doesn't happen all the time. Thanks for the response!
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
7 Oct 09
Hello friend, Oh,that was really scary,if i was on same situation,i guess i would probably cry. This is what i always told my kids,what to do,who to approach just in case they get lost by accidents when we are travelling. We always spent our vacation in my hometown twice a year and we travelled by bus for 7 hours with 3 to 4 stop over.So,i always advised my kids not to stay away from the bus station or never roam around. Thanks for sharing your experience my friend,you are way too young to travel by plane and i guess you are now used to it and you have build the confidence of travelling all alone,after that horrible experience. Have a good day and keep posting too
@RawBill1 (8531)
• Gold Coast, Australia
7 Oct 09
The first time that I traveled alone was when I was 21 years old. This was also the first time that I traveled on a plane. It was a two hour flight interstate to visit a friend who I had previously worked with. He had moved away with some of his friends to a different state. Ironically, I now live in that state and he lives back where we both grew up! I think that trip was what initially fueled my desire to move to where I live now. I remember at the time being very excited about flying for the first time and to be visiting a city that I did not know! It was fun to be finding my way around the town on my own after first arriving and exploring it further after I rented a car! It was a great 3 weeks, with lots of wild partying, but I went home with Chicken Pox and had to have an extra week off work!
@RawBill1 (8531)
• Gold Coast, Australia
8 Oct 09
Yes, this trip did give me the confidence to travel more. I traveled overseas on a six months round the world trip 3 years after this. I love to travel now!
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
7 Oct 09
Hello friend, That was a real adventure for you my friend.Travelling alone to a city which is totally new for you,and all alone huh. I think guys loves that kind of adventure,being free and alone like freedom from being caged after 21 years(lolz). And now you are too confident to move from place to place. Like other mylotters,this experience really give us more self confident and being independent too. Thanks for your response and have a good day always. Keep posting too my friend
5 Oct 09
I was 16 when I left home to go to the university. My mother travelled with me the very first time to help me in finding accommodation and making sure that I have everything I would need in preparation for school. She certainly did not pick me up afterwards when it's vacation time. I went home by myself (it's a 2 hour plane ride back home).The first time I went home, I was really excited and at the same time afraid that I would not find the airport, miss the plane or even get in the wrong flight and end up in another strange city. In the end, my excitement of seeing my folks outweighed all my fears. It turned out fine. Since then, I do not mind travelling alone. Nowadays, I don't do it anymore because we always travel as a family (except hubby who has to go occasionally for work).
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
Hello friend, That was a bit far,2 hour plane ride. Yah,i think most travel first experiences were due to studying/schooling at other places.Or,moving to other place like visiting relatives too. Thanks for your response and have a great day always
• United States
5 Oct 09
Well first of all, I'm quite the loner by nature, so it's probably easier for me. But in going home and back for breaks from college, I've taken train/bus trips that last 12-15 hours and span several hundred miles. I love these trips. All the alone time with the soothing motion of the train is wonderful. I really think people could benefit from taking more time to do nothing and be alone and have some quality introspection.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
Hello friend, Oh,if you are a loner,i bet travelling alone was never been a problem to you,but,i guess you really preferred to travel all alone all the time. Yah,loner think being alone is better ...for retrospect,most loner were retrospective all the time,so they love being alone. But sometimes having company won't hurt too my friend,for some changes,and interactions too. Anyway,thanks for your response and keep posting
@hora_fugit (5862)
• India
12 Oct 09
My first travel alone was when I had to appear for many entrance tests here and there, including this city.. And it's a 38 hour journey. But I didn't feel much excited as being silent for such a long time wears on you. And I happened to be a chatter box! Now a days it doesn't even seem to be such long but first time I was so restless!
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
13 Oct 09
Hello friend, That is one problem,when travelling alone,we had no one to talk with. The first time i also travelled all alone i guess is one of my silent moment(lolz)im also a chatter box hahaha.But,that time,i don't know how to approach a stranger,so,i was kept silent all the way for a long hours of travel. Thanks for your response and have a good day always. Keep commenting too
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
12 Oct 09
I was 23 when I travelled alone for the first time. I signed up for a language course in Italy, and I was really looking forward to the experience, but I was also incredibly nervous. I didn't know anyone in the area where I was going to live and I didn't speak much Italian, so I was wondering how I was going handle the situation. It was difficult at first, because the people from my house didn't speak English at all, but the school was great and after a while I learned to understand and speak some Italian. I also made some great friends, and I enjoyed my stay in Italy very, very much.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
13 Oct 09
Hello friend, I guess that was real scary,nervous and exciting too.Living in a place with no one you know,a total stranger.And,i to think that no one can speak with your language too,uh uh,i couldn't just imagine the difficulty with communication . Thanks for sharing your experience and have a great day always. Keep commenting too
@ginny01 (68)
• Hong Kong
10 Oct 09
I am 23 yrs old that time and first time to travel alone. Mixed feelings sad and happy also excited at first.And im glad i've been in foriegn country...have a nice day.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
13 Oct 09
hello friend, Experiences with travelling alone i guess is one of our greatest experiences,mixed emotions and also an adventure we would never forget. Good you had travelled in foreign countries my friend. Thanks for your response and have a good day always. Keep commenting too
@jenzai (388)
• Philippines
9 Oct 09
Hello, I remember I travel alone at the age of 15. I was so scared that might get lost. I just relied to my instinct that i will ask direction from a policemen or traffic man, not from a stranger. That was the instruction of my parents. I was too timid the whole travel and i would never spoke to any stranger. But i enjoy the panoramic views along the road.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
13 Oct 09
Hello friend, That's the only consolation we had with travelling alone to a new place,seeing new things especially beautiful places,for sometime we will be able to forget our nervousness. Thanks for your response and have a good day always friend. Keep commenting too
@jashoaf (296)
• United States
9 Oct 09
I was always a loner and spent much time alone with my horse, or in the woods behind our house. But my first trip was across the US, from Ohio to California, when I was 12. It was also my first time on an airplane. That was long ago, before they had attendants who took care of children flying alone. I was fine and loved it all until I got to LA Airport, which looked like a small city, and had no idea where to find my uncle, who I hadn't seen in several years. Luckily he found me, but it was scary at first. There were huge presses of people, and I hadn't a clue where to go or who to ask for help.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
13 Oct 09
Hello friend, Yah,travelling alone was bit scary,and a little bit of an adventure too.Like wandering,with no familiar faces in a strange place. but this experience give us a real adventure and self confidence too. Thanks for sharing your experience and keep commenting. Have a good day always
• United States
12 Oct 09
The first time I travelled by myself was from the Philippines to Idaho in 2004. It was scary but exciting at the same time, as it was a long international flight...approximately 19 hours all in all. But luckily, the airport staff were all friendly and helpful so they guided me towards the right direction whenever I got lost, which happened A LOT.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
13 Oct 09
Hello friend, That's the scariest part of it,getting lost (whew)i couldn't bear the nervous then of getting lost. And that was also a long trip,19 hours of battling the nervous and scared feeling. But,i think that was real exciting too. Thanks for sharing your experience and have a great day always. Keep commenting too