renew wedding vowels

if we are renewing our vows mean we have succesfully surpass the hardhip of life together and we choose to continue our lives with each other. I would like him to tell me what he has felt before we started and now that we are still holding on to each other i want him to tell me and promise me that we will still continue what we have in the coming more years of our lives and how he will continue to devote himself to me and our family.

I would like my parnter to say whatever is in his heart, but basically including what he had learned, felt and so on over the years. The sweet things that come to mind after expereince; an updated version of the original vows.