are all men not worth trusting?
By cutepink_13
@cutepink_13 (691)
October 5, 2009 8:23pm CST
i have been witnessing men who cheated their wives. one of these victim is my aunt. i never expect that my uncle will cheat on her. worst the other woman is his laudry woman and so ugly. he did this on the times that my aunt was pregnant. this uncle of mine is a very good husband but despite his goodness he afford to hurt my aunt. another is my boyfriend's father. they have been together for 20 years and just recently his mother suspected that his father has an affair. this really confused me and at the same time worries me what if my boyfriend will do the same.
2 responses
@Decoratedbus (32)
• Canada
6 Oct 09
Hey now, I realize you must be going through a terribly stressful situation right now but not all men are like that. As a man myself I can tell you that I have a bunch of friends who are like that, but hey there are good ones. I'm not sure what I would call myself but I can tell you that there are some of us you can trust.
There are always bad people, on either side. Just make sure you don't give away your trust. Don't set up walls, but don't set yourself to get shot down either. Make sure they earn it.
I can understand that it's hard not to be suspicious with all this happening around you, but try not to act too possessive with your relationships. Although you may have reason to be suspicious of boyfriends, being overly protective actually encourages men do so such things.
But you just have to learn to work through all of it hey? :)
I'm not sure if my opinion is the right one right now, maybe you want to hear from another woman, but hey anything to help.
Good luck! :D
@cutepink_13 (691)
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6 Oct 09
thanks for enlightening. its good to hear it from a man that there are men who can be trusted.
@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
6 Oct 09
I think it would be unfair to say that ALL men are untrustworthy because you've personally experienced untrustworthy men. What happened to you aunt is awful, but not every guy on this planet is like your uncle.
I believe there are really good guys out there that would NEVER cheat! I KNOW guys that have been cheated ON....cheating is a two way street--guys and girls both do it!
