How many good opposite gender friends do you have?
By zhyair
@zhyair (89)
China
5 responses
@adinata (106)
• Indonesia
8 Oct 09
I have many good opposite gender friends. I think life will be bland if we only friends with a similar gender. Sometimes we need something new in our life. If we talk with the opposite gender we would found many new things to share. furthermore, a different mindset from them would create different solutions if you ask their advice. That`s why i decide to add a lot of friendsfrom opposite gender. I think it was not a bad thing. We could start from our classmates, colleagues, etc. Try it and you will find something new!!!
@adinata (106)
• Indonesia
9 Oct 09
Haha ... To make friends with the other gender, the first thing to do is provide us the time to hear his stories. Especially girls, they were very happy to tell. Try to set aside some time to listen to what they convey the story, though sometimes it was difficult to understand their world but at least try to be a good listener. They will feel valued if treated that way.
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
6 Oct 09
i have 2 in my colleages sometimes i hate them but sometimes i understand them because there are times they are in the pre-menstruation period so they often have mood swings but i still love them.we have some differences but we understand some other things.
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
6 Oct 09
i have my work mate, we've worked together for 5 yrs now. he's annoying at times, and pushes when you don't want him about somethings. then he's great to talk to listens and puts his own 2 cents in.
you could say i just treat him like any other friend, i'd talk to him before others that are female. plus he's fun to be around.
but i don't talk to many if any i was at school with now.
@moneymakingtoday (4061)
• Philippines
6 Oct 09
i know of two, actually, but they are not really very close friends. i just happened to talk to them and be with them because they are my badminton buddies. i enjoy time talking to them and they are funny and seem to be happy most of the time. they don't have any qualms about being themselves, which is why i like them. they just act naturally..
