Do your spouse keep a watch on your phone calls everyday?

@suprad1 (251)
India
October 6, 2009 12:52am CST
Does your spouse check your Cellphone every evening to see whom have you spoken with, the entire day? How do you handle such an issue which is a question of trust?
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4 responses
JohnJeff
@JohnJeff (720)
• Malaysia
6 Oct 09
We must trust each others.If your are good man there is nothing to afraid.For me she is concern about her relationship with you.Thats mean she don't want to loose you.It's little bit jelousy but may be some guy cannot accept it's as our cell phones is our private property.
suprad1
@suprad1 (251)
• India
6 Oct 09
Even though you are right when you say that there is nothing to fear as long as the partner is loyal and good. But it is still breach of trust and is not necessary. Cell phones of spouses cannot be checked for the purpose of checking. If done casually, it should be fine. All times may not be the same.
laydee
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
6 Oct 09
Hmm.. That's not a good indication. Not a good thing at all. I don't think a spouse should act that way. I know it's a great deal to trust someone, but once in a while is okay perhaps she's just being paranoid or something, but everyday?? She/he has strong trust issues, and it isn't sweet to be check upon when you're not doing anything bad. You should talk to him/her. My partner always tells me that there are things that should be left private, and it's not because he wants to hide something. It's more of his individuality and as same with mine.
suprad1
@suprad1 (251)
• India
6 Oct 09
You are right. I too feel that it is a purely personal issue. I feel it is a breach of trust if done without the consent of the partner, or if checked daily even with consent. Such a relationship cannot be healthy one, I feel. Thank you for your views.
2babita
@2babita (1072)
• India
6 Oct 09
Yes,he do but he don't get any chance to question me.If any day it happen then i will see bucz i don't have any personal thing.
moonchild117
@moonchild117 (1987)
• Philippines
6 Oct 09
My husband doesn't keep watch on my calls or text messages that I receive, and I the same. It's not that we don't care, it's just that we trust each other enough and we respect each other's privacy. If that happened to me, I would talk to my partner and ask if he doesn't trust me and why. Then I would explain and assure him that he can trust that I won't do anything he wouldn't like that would ruin his trust in me.