How do u deal with cunning people..??
By drdivu
@drdivu (1011)
India
October 6, 2009 2:05pm CST
I m sad to state that I m not diplomat...I dont know how to deal with cunning people..and the people who use friends n then leave them when their aim is over...Such people dont even bother to reply or pay back...they just use and leave bluntly...
I had 4 friends..I have helped them in thick n thin but they left me because 2 of them found a boyfriend each n the other 2 found another friend who is well off n spendthrift...
I really go into depression after such incidents...
wat to do with such people..??
how do u deal with people who try to use u..??
7 responses
@jugsjugs (12967)
•
6 Oct 09
I know some cunning friends and yes i am gradually tearing myself away from those kind of people that are like that.I would not mind as much but some of those people are people that i have been friends with for a long long time so it is not that easy.I tend to say i am busy now and then so i do not get too much of a problem with it.
@Tom728 (175)
• United States
12 Oct 09
I dont let it bother me so much. Usually those people have problems. I have to admit I left most of my friends over a g/f. Alot of times I wish we could just hang out. I think the best way to fight it is to fight to keep in touch and outwit them and predict when the fall out will happen.
@riani2009 (581)
• Indonesia
12 Oct 09
life is take and give rule.. But, there is more if you could only to serve then you are better. We live in the world of agony.. the more we give actually the more we earn. Handling cunning people is simple ignore them. If you want to serve them, serve them with your pure heart. Don't expect or hope anything from them, let only God in your heart that will reward you for your good deed. If you cannot serve them, avoid them because you will regter for wht you have given.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
12 Oct 09
against people who like to take advantage of others to self-interest, you must do handling with a certain ingenuity. You must have the courage to say "no" to any form of their tricks and said from the beginning if you are asked to do something, then that person must pay a wage above what you have done
@fglswh (66)
• China
12 Oct 09
I am a kind hearted person too, and i think most of people are kind. in everyday life, we can happen many cunning person, i was annoyed before. but now, i changed because i always tell myself that this kind of person is normal, we should treat it calmfully. if you are always angry with such things, you will have no friends and never believe friendship any more.
@shilley (155)
• India
11 Oct 09
Stopping feeling for such friends..oh..they should no more be considered as friends.If they were real friends they wouldn't have done that to you.Mistake is also on your side,you should have been carefull while choosing friends.It is always better to stay alone than being in a bad company.Forget the past and start living your life.They have already hurt you,so you don't hurt yourself by thinking about such friends.And be glad that they have taught you a good lesson and be wary in the future.
@bewitched13 (792)
• India
7 Oct 09
It is very difficult to deal with cunning people. They just use you because of your soft nature and also as your are not tactful. One should be very smart while dealing with such cunning and clever people. I am very gullible as i believe in people too much. So these cunning and clever people literally take me for a ride. Each time i think i should be cautious but my kind hearted nature makes a fool of me each time.
