How to deal with my own EGO or SELFRESPECT?
@Srivastava_roli (269)
October 7, 2009 12:17am CST
I dont know whether its my ego or my selfrespect which is creating problems in my life.My life is becoming hell day by day.Every day there is a big difference came out between me and my family.Can anybody tell me how to supress my feelings and keep shut my mouth?
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@magic9 (980)
• China
7 Oct 09
I have the similar problem with you. and I believe the only way to make things work towards better and better day by day is to learn to be a giver, definately. I mean, have you noticed that in too many times, we have concerned about ourselves too much, the most aabove others, above thei benefits and interests?
parents are great forgivers, they sacrifice more for us that we normally take it for granted, which imakes me ashamed.
I shop a lo, buy lots of clothes, leather jackets, expensive handbags, expensive perfumes and cosmetics, dine out at least 5 times a week, go to a cafe or bar if i am not feeling happy. yet, i know clearly i haven't done enough for my family. I have always put myself in the first place, home or workplace.
so it's really the right time for people like me to think over about this. to learn to be a giver as our families do for s. by doing so, we could release the tession among family members, and creat a comfortable place for all of us.
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@Srivastava_roli (269)
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8 Oct 09
Thanx for your valuable suggestion but how can i know whats going to hurt the other people?
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