how can you manage insecurity???

I have a different story of insecurity. I always have this feeling that my boyfriend still love his ex girlfriend that's why when I hear her name or when he sings something that I can relate to past love, i go nuts. I still can't figure out why even if he had explained everything to me and had assured me that he has no interest whatsoever to his ex. That's just insecurity that I have been nurturing all this time.

I think insecurity is very common normal feeling to feel. We all go through different stages of insecurity in our lives and the way I deal with it is that I either look at the brighter side or take it as a motivation.

I love myself and I never get insecure. Sometimes I saw beautiful women but I never compare myself to them. I always feel good and try to look good because I can be pleasant if I do such thing.

Hmmm.. I always wish i were someone else. I wish to be tall like the models, gorgeous an d pretty like the celebrities, able to buy everything i wantlike those rich girls, etc.. But i just realized that i myself am lucky enough to be me, simple and ordinary with a little beauty yet blessed with such a happy and loving family. I have a friend, she's so pretty and popular. She buys anything she likes for they are rich but she always fakes a smile on her face. She had a broken family. She is even insecure of the kind of family i have. Come to think of this, your insecure of others while others are insecure to you in some way or another.