I'm so sad that my father work hard at another city
By Betty Deng
@bettydeng5 (1822)
China
October 7, 2009 8:43am CST
My heart nearly broke when I received my father's call, he is 55 years of old now, but he have to work hard to earn more money to support my family at another city. He told me that he really doesn't want to work there, but he doesn't have any way to earn more money to support family. But my mother don't agree his back, at the same time I didn't earn much money during financial crisis, how can I do?
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4 responses
@jpso138 (7851)
• Philippines
12 Oct 09
I know that many are really suffering due to the financial crisis that the world is experiencing nowadays. What is important is to support each other and understand each others decision. I am sure that for as long as we hold on to each other there is always a way. I do hope that you will be able to find a way. Do not forget to pray and pair it up with positive thinking. If there is a will there is always a way.
@bettydeng5 (1822)
• China
14 Oct 09
Yeah, it's difficult to find a good job under that financial crisis days, I hope I can find a good way to resolve my problem in the near future. You said right, have a positive thinking is very important, and sometimes which will decide you will get or lose something. thank you my friends.
@madugulagopi (1093)
• India
7 Oct 09
HI Betty,
That's really sad dear. Its very sad that your father had to work very hard to support your family. That is the same situation in my family a few years ago. I know how it feels like when we see that our father is really working hard to support the family and I am only a student then and I have no chance of doing anything. But now I have got a job and I want him to take rest now. Nothing is lost forever. Find yourself a job and support your father. If you find a job then your father come to your place and if he still wants to do something he find a small job in your home town only because you are there to support him. I don't know how many brothers and sistere you got but its time for the children to take up the responsibilities because your father is already 55. Dont worry that you have not done well in this financial crisis. Something is better than nothing and your father really appreciates every thing that you do now.
All the best
@bettydeng5 (1822)
• China
8 Oct 09
thank you, my friend gopi, yes, I think my parents know I want to do something for my family, and I hope they can understand my ability at this moment. I'm very sad to get the feeling from my father, I think he is very tired but no choice.
@madhuvamsi (1185)
• India
7 Oct 09
Yes friend, it is sad moment in your family. You can help your family financially by doing some part time jobs if you are student. Lot of Online part time jobs are there and you can try earning few bucks first for yourself. Try to see that your burned does not fall on your family financial this is help that you can offer your parents.
Another option is relocate to your father's city and give him moral support. Why staying away from your father. This is another option but if you can work then it will be great help to your family and they will definately gain some confidence in you and they will not worry much about you.. Regarding your father hard work one cannot get money without working hard, so, it is not in your control. Do what can you do and see.. all the best..
@bettydeng5 (1822)
• China
8 Oct 09
Thank you for your information, my friend. I'm a worker, but I got a little money from my work though I work hard. and I can supply a little of my money to support my family, so I joined in mylot, hope I can use the spare time to earn a extra cost. You are right, I can't control the life, but I try to do my best to support, it looks very difficult.
@angeliam (206)
• China
11 Oct 09
our parents are the greates person in the world.everybody struggles to make a living.a lot of people are in worse situation than you are.don't worry,things will get better.i know you love your father,and want to help him on the whole supporting thing.you have many chances to do so,you are young.you will take this responsibility all by yourself in the future.
