can a woman just stay home doing nothing/

@angeliam (206)
China
October 7, 2009 8:59pm CST
i quited my job four months ago and i stay home most of the time doing noting.is it good for me?
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10 responses
@jc_star10 (953)
• Indonesia
8 Oct 09
No, I don't think it's good. Stay at home is okay, but doing nothing, i don't think it's good thing. You must be want to earn money, or at least doing something that can help your income too. There are many jobs that don't require someone to be out of their home. You can sell stuff in e-bay, you can make something creative and sell it. After all, it will be quite boring if you stay home and doing nothing at all..
@angeliam (206)
• China
8 Oct 09
how can i sell things on e-bay?could you give me some suggestions to follow?i really have good things.
@xannebull (1793)
• Philippines
8 Oct 09
i think you better find a job for yourself to make you more productive. woman needs to update herself from the happenings around the world so if a woman just stays at the house and do nothing, then it would be bad for her.
@angeliam (206)
• China
8 Oct 09
yes,i'll try to find a job and enrich myself.
@manong05 (5027)
• Philippines
8 Oct 09
I hope what you mean by doing nothing is just being jobless and not completely idle, and actually doing nothing productive. If you are completely idle, I think you are heading for trouble. At least you must have something that will keep your mind and hands busy. Definitely, doing nothing is not good for you of for any person for that matter. Anyway, I hope you will get another job soon, that is, if you are still interested LOL cheers
@angeliam (206)
• China
8 Oct 09
thank you,i received many instructive advices,i feel good.this gives me much comfort.
@karbuks (270)
• Philippines
8 Oct 09
If it feels good for you to stay home, then there is no problem with that. As for me, I get bored when I stay home, because I really want to make use of my time doing the things I love and I enjoy. I value my work so much and I have to continue learning in order for me to grow as a person. Anyways, its actually a choice, If you want your life to be like that, doing nothing, then it is up to you, but if you want exciting and fulfilling life, then i think its not too late to be what you can possibly be.
@angeliam (206)
• China
8 Oct 09
you are so lucky doing a job that you like.i also want to enjoy my work.but first of all,i must find a job that i am interested in.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Oct 09
hi angeliam get another job my dear and feel good again About yourself. working is a key to having a good opinion 'of yourself. find something you like to do and apply for a job. enjoy your job and be happy again.. doing nothing will zap you of any strength to go out into the work force 'again.
@angeliam (206)
• China
8 Oct 09
you are right,it's not late yet.i am young and smart.i must have some confidence.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
1 May 13
its good when we rest for a month staying in the house but aw can also experience to be bored sometimes when it will become two or more months to come that we are jobless,a woman can stay at home to take care their kids and the house.but still woman can choose if she want to work or not.
@Lindalinda (4111)
• Canada
17 Oct 09
No, this is not good. If you quit your job because you found it difficult to cope with the fact that your partner was also your boss find another job away from that place. If you can afford not to work go to school to train for something that will provide you with the opportunity to take care of yourself if need be. Go to school to upgrade your education. Remember there may come a time when you have to look after yourself. Every person has this responsibility. One of my cousins married a girl from the same country that you are from. They both lost their jobs. He found another one, she stays at home doing mostly housework or nothing. They have no children and are young. It breaks my heart to see her wasting her time and youth. In my country you need to work and pay into a pension plan so you will be provided for when you are old. I wish she would listen to good advice.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
17 Oct 09
Do tell us more of your situation. Are you married? Do you have children? Why did you quit your job? Regardless of anything, I would not recommend staying home and doing nothing for anyone. Even if you aren't working, it is not healthy to do nothing at all I wouldn't think. I mean, you must have some hobbies and interests...friends. It's really hard for someone not in your situation to tell you that it is not a good thing really. If you are bored and unhappy then it can't be good for you.
@calai618 (1773)
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
it depends whether you are happy being free right now. If you are in that situation because you are sick of working but you are still capable of providing for yourself, then lucky you. But if you are doing nothing so you won't be able to provide for yourself, then that's definitely not good. You have to work. By working, i don't mean going out finding companies to work for, you may also start a new source of income at home. You may want that kind of setup. :D good luck!
• China
8 Oct 09
I think that type of life is totally unacceptable to me, I need a full time work and I like to socializing with others, living at home doing nothing, or even earn online money, that means you have no or very less income. To a person who is interested in shopping like me, can not accept that.