So many discussions by a single person !!!!!!
By K.Rajib G.
@krajibg (11922)
Guwahati, India
October 8, 2009 10:42am CST
I have observed that there are some lotters who release as many as 20 discussions within half an hour. I wonder why they do so? As I am scared of posting one discussion in two days.
Would it still be a discussion if one does posts so many discussions?
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41 responses
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
8 Oct 09
Hi krajibg, if you are talking about the endless posting of inane one liners which receive no comments back then we're really not discussing discussons at all, as it takes at least two people to make a discussion.
Then there are the other type of posters who release ten discussions at once but five on the variation of the same topic, which allows for four to bomb and one to turn into a discussion. Someone has obviously saved them all up and posted them in a lump which is highly irritating.
Now as I have posted four discussions today you must decide if I am one of those too, the simple fact is though that I rarely give any thought to what discussion I will post but do it spontaneously when the idea hits me, most often when I'm typing up a response and think I'm wasting a discussion here. I can handle four discussions at once easily and still respond to others so I don't see an issue in that as some discussions will appeal to different people, and one might be serious whilst another is frivoulous allowing one to flit between when fancying a change. Other days I will post nothing as the mood does not strike.
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@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
9 Oct 09
Hi thea,
No I am not talking the kind of discussion of your kind. I admit there is a variation in them and you have ever responded back to a response to your discussion. If that had to be the issue thee would be no problem if one posted 50. But paradoxically that does not happen and what happens is a mess. Al jargon.
Even I have posted three discussion in a single day but of various nature and have handled them. But I see no logic to flood the page with discussions and those having no qualitative value.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
9 Oct 09
Hello my friend
You know them well my friend, seems like there is a pattern going on here its really sad I really tried to help guess like you said they got bored, makes no sense to me, but mylot would not be mylot without a couple of people giving us something to talk about lol
Smoochesss my friend, hope all is well with you.
@jlamela (4898)
• Philippines
9 Oct 09
I barely post discussions because sometimes I don't know what to post.lol!So I ended up just answering other members' discussion or go to my posted discussions and answered responses.
Well, people posted many discussions everyday to generate more earnings because as we go back to our discussions and started making reply to members, our earnings will increase.
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@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
16 Oct 09
No jlamela, I do not think by posting many discussion people warn more. With a single discussion you could earn more than one with 20 odd.
@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
9 Oct 09
I've known members that have done that...I think the most I've started is five in one day. Somedays I just have a lot on my mind and want to talk...other days I just don't feel like it. I think as long as the person is happy starting discussions then they should do what makes them happy...who knows how many ppl enjoy that persons discussions.
[b]~~AT PEACE WITHIN~~
**STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS**[/b]
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@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
14 Oct 09
Hi twoey,
I have no intention to exaggerate and I was on alert how many discussions that p[person would fields. And it was astonishing to see the number.
My point is that discussion should be discussion and not two there should be view of more people. Or else it would be simply a mockery..
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
8 Oct 09
Hi raj, I don't understand how some people has so much of ideas to come up with. It takes me ages to think of what to post and the fact that I have to service my discussion after posting put a limit on how many I can possibly manage in a week.
I don't really go for too many postings as I fear they will bore the readers. I think too many discussions from the same person makes them more like classroom questions and answers. The poster ends up thanking everyone for responding.
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@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
9 Oct 09
Hello zands,
Come on, you are quite senior here and must know their tactics. What I feel is that they just want to increase the volume within bracket. Even if they get one response they get 1 added and thus the number has increased. I do not think this is a healthy practice. If you are not interested in discussion or feel not competent enough to respond do not respond at all.
@abanerji (1026)
• India
8 Oct 09
well dada,
there are some people who post something in the name of discussion but after posting they don't even go back to see the responses. you don't dare to post many discussions because you always go back and respond to the people who have responded to you.
any communication is complete and effective only when there is feedback. without a feedback a discussion is incomplete and hence, not a discussion in any sense.
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@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
9 Oct 09
hi sis,
You too have marked ya? You are right to say that you have no moral right to post discussion and go and respond who have responded to yours. Be fair to all. And maintain your discussion as discussion for I can not discuss things or issues with myself. I need people to communicate and it is not necessary that all have to go eye to eye what I put in my discussion topic.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
8 Oct 09
Hello my friend
I think I know exactly who you are referring too, my email use to be bombarded with notifications from this user it was ridiculous so I turned notifications off, I also advised the user to respond to past discussions if not you are defeating the purpose I believe they started a discussion about not getting enough pay, well if you respond then maybe you will see a difference, they responded with good advice yet nothing has changed
Thanks my friend.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
9 Oct 09
Hi kitty,
Yes they are the ones. I was really wondering what purpose would their venture serve here in mylot for this is not a blog but a discussion and in any discussion there must be at least two people. They have not left the place, they are still there but do not know their next mission.
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
8 Oct 09
Hi sweetie, you've got it in one, first the endless discussions started and left ignored and then the usual discussion about why they earn no money, then they chane their ways and answer 2 responses, get bored and go back to making more discussions, then come back and say they aren't earning any money and is it true they should respond as it's boring. PHEW. Hugs kitty.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
9 Oct 09
[b]Hello my friend
I would say maybe someone said they more you start the more you get, well that it obviously not the case, can't think for the life of me why someone would do this on a daily basis, oh well better them than me, I tried to help therefore I am done, to each his own
Thanks my friend.[/b]
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
8 Oct 09
Hi dear!
You got it right, I have also observed that yesterday there were many discussions by a single user. Though some of the discussions were interesting to respond, yet all cannot be termed as quality discussions. Moreover, I was wondering how she would do justice to all her discussions. It always takes time to post comments on the response received. I apprehend that she would not be able to post her comments to all the respondents. I also do not start multiple discussions and till I have time, I feel hesitant to start a new discussion. I wish to post my comments to the respondents and this way I can do justice to my discussions.
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
9 Oct 09
I can bet they cannot post comments to so many response. They just want to add some topics to show that they can do it.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
11 Oct 09
Yes deepak, that is the case only. They post only to increase the number against their username and nothing else.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
9 Oct 09
Hello Deepak,
I am really taken aback by the way some lotters here act. That 20 posts posters is a real fact and thee are some who post at least 5 to 10 discussion post and I wonder how they manage time to respond back or make their post real discussions.
@jennysp8 (855)
• United States
8 Oct 09
I don't think I really understand your last question. As long as each discussion is on a different subject or question, then there is nothing wrong with that. It's like saying if you have a talk with your mail man in the morning, then you can't chat with the neighbor right after because then they both wouldn't be discussions. Sorry if I am misunderstanding your question.
You shouldn't be scared to post too many discussions. If you have something legit and worthwhile to talk about, then go for it - post all you want.
Of course, I do get irritated when their discussions are like this:
"Do you like hamburgers?"
"Do you like cheeseburgers?"
"Do you like chicken sandwiches?"
"Do you like tuna sandwiches?"
Those can really drive me nuts...
Anyways, thanks for the discussion - have a great day!
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
8 Oct 09
Absolutely Rajib!
Just posting a topic and never getting back to it is NOT a discussion at all and would not be considered as quality here.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
8 Oct 09
My friend you took me on the wrong note. Just tell me what discussion is? If it is just posting and no commenting back it has lost the status of being a discussions. If you like this sort of things you have the right to. But a rationed mind would not post so many discussions at a time and would not comment back either.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
9 Oct 09
Hi Diana,
I sometime get frustrated to see how people treat their discussion. As if it is a blog. Let or let not others comment on it. When things comes to discussion it must be discussed and there must appear threads or why posting ands wasting time?
@mentalward (14690)
• United States
8 Oct 09
It would be a discussion if the poster responds to all of the comments but I don't see how anyone could respond to so many. I've noticed that some people do this, too. Generally, I can see that these are topics that don't really matter to the person who posts them, they just want to get as many discussions started as they can for whatever reason. Maybe they think that posting more discussions earns them more money. Maybe someone should tell them that they don't earn by posting discussions, they earn by responding to the comments they get.
I've noticed that, whenever I post a discussion, my post count doesn't go up, not until I respond to a comment. But, I've also never tried to post as many discussions as I can. I post whenever I have something to say.
These people who do post so many discussions should be made aware of the fact that they'd probably get more comments if they only posted discussions that were of interest to them so they'd have something to actually discuss!
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
8 Oct 09
Very nice and valid words. If you are not commnting back to those discussions what is the use of your posting so many discussions? Well, just go and comment on what you had earlier pasted and then think of posting new discussion.
@moneymakingtoday (4061)
• Philippines
9 Oct 09
i am with u on this, mentalward. i wonder how they are able to respond to their posts when these are too many. when i answer a "started discussion", i always go back and check if i have a response from the poster. i am really interested what opinion i get from my comment. hope everyone answers his posts (i am referring to "started discussion").
@mentalward (14690)
• United States
9 Oct 09
Me, too, money. We put thought into our responses (usually) and it's always nice to see a response to our response. I've stopped commenting to some members' discussions because they never respond back. As a matter of fact, I usually remove these people from my friend's list (or at least turn off email notifications from them) because I have no interest in almost all of their discussions, mainly because it's so obvious that they didn't put much thought into them in the first place.
@celticeagle (166550)
• Boise, Idaho
9 Oct 09
Why wouldn't it be? They do so to make money. I am not sure that that many would be plausible but half sounds good. Yes, I could do that.
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
9 Oct 09
One liners do not make ANY money and if the original poster does not go back and comment on the responses, asssuming that they receive any, they will not earn either because we do not earn if others post. We only earn for what we type and submit.
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@celticeagle (166550)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Oct 09
Yes, I know. Has to be atleast 4 lines doesn't it? I think that is only right. Needs be a conversation.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
9 Oct 09
I have seen someone do that too. A while ago I accepted a friend’s request and I had 36 discussions come through to my email all from that same person in the one evening. Out of the 36 I felt I wanted to contribute to only a couple because the rest of them didn’t appeal and were just one line questions. For me it is a struggle to come up with something once or twice a week and then I find that starting discussions is a commitment to a lot of work in order to reply to all the responses.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
16 Oct 09
Sorry to hear you were not well Rajib, I hope you feel better now. It is okay to take time out when you need to, your friends will still be here when you come back, take care....
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
16 Oct 09
Yes paula,
You said it rightly. discussion is a commitment to a lot of work. Just some body posts a discussion and left that orphaned is not fair for both the poster and the other members of the community. When you respond to my discussion obviously you would expect to know my opinion on what you said for you could have some thing more to add to if any issue came up in my comment. This makes the sense.
Now look this discussion is 7 days old but as I was not well I could not comment back and if I left them like this every time I would not be flooded with responses in my new post.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
9 Oct 09
I'm with everyone else on this one. I don't start discussions I can't keep up with. I think it would be very hard to keep up with more than a couple of open discussions at once. I also think that the more you start at one time the less responses you may get to them.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
16 Oct 09
Hi Jen,
I too wonder how come people handle so many discussion at a time. I mean even if people like you and me post three discussions, say in a span of 20 minutes, we need to comment back too and it would take a lot of time if the discussions call for complicated debates.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
9 Oct 09
[b]Hello my friend
This is true, I respond more than anything but when I start discussions its something I really want to talk about, so responding is a pleasure because I have more than enough to say about my discussion.
The poster I know that does this gets maybe 2 or 3 responses sometimes more but mostly 2 or 3 because they have so many, they may respond to one, if that, makes no sense to me.
Thanks my friend.[/b]
@meapas (2436)
• India
8 Oct 09
There are so many topics under the sun to be discussed so why not 20 in half an hour? You find it difficult to post one in two days is nothing surprising because I find it difficult to post one in 20 days. So you see how weak we are compared to others in this game. So let us make our self fit and fine in this number game that is if we want to. Hope to see you again on some new topic.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
9 Oct 09
Hi meapas,
Easier said than done. Ae you going to compete with those who put anything in the name of discussion? If you are - all the best. I am not in the race. I would post a new discussion when I think I should or a unique idea has popped in.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
11 Oct 09
Thanks a hell measpas. Ye I will come up with a new discussion very soon.
@meapas (2436)
• India
9 Oct 09
I have shortlisted my friends list and you are one of them. If you can go back on my responses for the last one month you will be able to see what I mean. I respond to select few. Let others make merry. I enjoy them from the shore. Hope to see you with some new discussions.
@vandana7 (100179)
• India
9 Oct 09
Hi krajibg, frankly I dont know how they come up with so many things to discuss! I mean, I see the topics, then it strikes me that I do have some idea about it. But may be I have fixed notions, and therefore, I dont really think they are worth any debate. LOL. However, I did notice that at times my thinking was considerably different. Starting a discussion to me meant debating to a level where some conclusions could be drawn, or at least a new dimension could be added to my thinking - something that I'd never previously thought of. I do wish they would try to come up with something like that so that not only posting comments, but even reading discussions would be quite a good time pass.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
16 Oct 09
That is or should be the real perspective of any discussion vandana. What, just fancy I post a discussion like 'What is your pet name?' would this still be on the threshold of labeled a discussion? I say no. This would not bring any conclusion or to say there would be no substance that one would be benefited. discussion should generate debate and debate and difference in the opinion and finally a positive or negative conclusion should be for you. But this is not happening and we are just responding to some 'chats' only.
@vandana7 (100179)
• India
16 Oct 09
I think Rajib, possibly these people start those discussions to the break ice. May be they first want to form a friend circle, and then get them to respond. This is just a guess. After all, we are from a cross section of society, covering all ages, people from all countries, all cultures, all religions... I did start a couple like that with similar purpose. I've been here for almost 3 months now, with less than ten discussions to my credit! I must do something about it, otherwise people will wonder why they are not getting any BR's from me. LOL. Problem is, when I start a really serious discussion, it gets too hot to handle. LOL. And I am also here to relax as well, so I dont really want to step on anybody's toes so to speak. Especially, the toes of people who contribute positively to discussions. So though in principal what I mentioned in first post here is what I believe in, I am ok with the other type of discussions as well.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
16 Oct 09
Yes vandana, that could be the possible reason or at the worst they might be doing this for the sake of fun. Sure, we are from cross section of the society, different tongue, different tastes and surely there would be difference in the mindset too.
Oh ya, you have not initiated discussion for a long time and I feel sometime we feel we had a hot topic. And opinions and debate should flow. How is that. When I have the confidence I really go for such topic. Let happen what happens.
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
18 Oct 09
It depends on the content of the post if it would be considered as a discussion or if many members would participate in the post, I mean, even a simple question can turn into a very interesting debate later on.
The frequency of the discussion post can be alarming indeed but, I hope it isn't a copy-paste kind of discussion, especially if its from some other site posted by others who started the discussion.
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
18 Oct 09
I guess they would have this notion wherein if they have a lot of posted discussion, they wouldn earn very fast.
Its rather annoying sometimes when you get to see a lot of discussions with little value in them and they would be too abundant, you won't get to view other discussions which may be more promising for something which would jolt one's thinking.
Well, posting a lot of discussion would also get them the chance to have more activity, if ever other members would participate in their discussions.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
9 Oct 09
Some people can type very fast and also have discussions coming at them a mile a minute (that is to say they think of things to discuss fast)... Now 20 in a half an hour I am sure is possible, but if it has less then two lines I wouldn't consider it a discussion. I'd just say that it's a thought and that's about it. A discussion has questions, adds curiosity, or at the very least can be responded to without saying "I don't understand" or "this is too short of a post" etc.
Don't be afraid to post more discussions though, just remember content is key!
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
11 Oct 09
I am not quite sure what you mean. Are you saying that not everyone can type fast and that a discussion is not a discussion without opinions? I agree a discussion does need opinions.
Have a wonderful day.
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
9 Oct 09
They do so because they think it will improve their earnings. They do not realize that they don't even need to start one new discussion per day.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
16 Oct 09
Hi Canellita,
Yes you have a point. Either they post so many discussion in the hope of getting more earnings or to come to people's notice or to see how many people respond and what they say about his/her discussion. and yes, one need not start a discussion everyday.
@jellymonty (2352)
•
8 Oct 09
Oh I can't stand it when someone starts too many discussions at once, and most of the time they are really boring topics. I usually only make about one or two discussions per week as I don't see the point of agonizing everyone with pointless discussions..
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
9 Oct 09
Hi there,
You said the right points. Why to bother others with pointless discussion. Of course if there are are some s=who are able to manage they are welcomed but not all.
@Sandra1952 (6047)
• Spain
15 Oct 09
Some people think - mistakenly - that they earn from starting discussions. I can go a week or even more without posting a discussion, because I want to post quality discussions, that Mylot users will respond to and I can comment on. Someone who posts 20 or more discussions a day cannot possibly manage them effectively. I'd say go with your instincts. Most of us here are responders rather than discussion starters. When you have a great idea for a discussion, go for it - otherwise, concentrate on quality responses. Either way, you'll be making the most of your Mylot time and earning as a bonus.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
16 Oct 09
hi Sandra,
That is right. most of the users who are really active are rather responders. They do start discussions but not to deluge the page with just one name. I too am of the same view you. Unless I have something really useful to share I do post or else respond to others.
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
11 Oct 09
Hi,kra,there is nothing wrong in posting discussions continuously subjected to if they are quality posts and under mylot rules.Suppose if a member write down discussions when ever he got ideas for a period of week or two.Then it is easy to post in half an hour on one fine morning.If we won't have quality discussions with us,we can't post for even week days also till we get quality discussions in our mind.All the best and have a nice time.
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
16 Oct 09
The point is Balu that posting a topic is one thing and posting a discussion is another. Unless there is some action by the original poster it is not a quality discussion just a post
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
16 Oct 09
Yes, there is nothing wrong nor should be anything if they are of what you have described. But as it was my observation I found most of them scrap and one or two would be a little to take into consideration.