What changes you experienced after marriage?
By hireshd
@hireshd (490)
India
7 responses
@my125125 (818)
• Malaysia
14 Oct 09
Hello hireshd, I'm married about 3 years.
The first thing will be change is you need to fill in "married", when you fill in some form.
Second thing will be, you can't just go out with your friends together and leave your wife alone.
Third things is the relationship between you mother and your wife, that's you need to handle well.
Fourth things is after you have a baby, that's a little changes may need you and your wife settle together.
@SACHIN2708 (1634)
• India
18 Nov 09
Right you have to maintain atmosphere of house .Because when you come to home ,Your mom will complaint about your wife and your wife will complaint about your Mom this is common thing which use to do in all family but you should be more wise and care feelings of your mom and your wife and make them understand
@grkelly (1206)
• Malta
3 Mar 10
The main change in marraige life is that you have to coordinate tasks to help each other out, especially if you work as well. The biggest change will take place when you have your first child. Too many changes happen at that stage as you have to take up the roles of parents as well and the child will take up a lot of your time and energy. Having a child is a wonderful experience but it can be hard and marraige life may be undermined a bit if the couple do not make it a point to help each other out to cope with all the new changes a baby brings to the family.
@larish (2234)
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
I and my hubby is on our second year in marriage. I have to hard times after the wedding. What we have is that a wedding is a start of a new life for the both of us. living with him is very easy, I think it is really important that you have known your partner from his weaknesses to his strong points. That way you won't be part of those people who experience horrible things after the wedding. It is best that you also put your expectations on a minimal. Do not expect that things will always be on their best because it is not the reality. Enjoy life.
@SACHIN2708 (1634)
• India
18 Nov 09
First congrates for your wedding so Now dear you will see many changes in life after marriage because after marriage there is new life comes .In starting days you will feel fun but after that you will realize that it is big responsbility because now you will not live only for you ,you will live for your partner and your family including your children.So dear trust is very important and You should be friend of your partner
@michael_walsh (33)
•
13 Oct 09
I can't say much has changed for us. We lived together for a while before we got married though, so that may be why. The way we behave hasn't changed. We saw eachother as equals before the marriage and still do after. I think a marriage is a celebration of love, it doesn't mean things change.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
8 Oct 09
My husband and I married on the 26th of September. We do not feel any change in our relationship because of the marriage, if nothing else we are closer. I think our situation was a bit different as we did live together before marriage, and we live together now.
As for changes in other ways, of course the last name is changed for the female if that is something the female wants to do, and there's government changes that must be made so that the government knows who you are, etc.
I live in the USA and had to get my ss card name changed, and have to get my id changed... etc.