How do you feel if your friend in the net has blocked you ?

Semarang, Indonesia
October 8, 2009 10:19pm CST
Hey...just wanna ask, if you have a friend in the net and when you want to contact him/her, but you can't because they already blocked you because he/she feels that you threat him/her badly.....How do you feel ? And what do you do to fix that ?
8 responses
@shaggin (72141)
• United States
10 Oct 09
Well if someone blocked me because they felt I treated them bad the obviously I was doing something wrong and I should feel sad that I lost a friend because of my behavior. I had this guy that I was friends with on facebook. I talked to him for like 2 months and then I left him comments on things and I assumed things and he got mad and deleted me off his friends list. He wont add me back on either even though we continued to chat on aol. Oh well I'm over it. I was really mad at first but now I'm just like whatever I dont care what he puts on facebook. He got a girlfriend now and wont chat with me on aol anymore which I think is totally stupid but you know what I just dont care anymore either. I was good enough to talk to when he was bored and had no one to talk to but now I'm not good enough I guess. Oh well I dont need people like that as friends.
• Semarang, Indonesia
12 Oct 09
I think you're right. But, for me, I must apology to her if I make mistake. After that, I will not disturb her. It's really sad if I must "say goodbye with her, she's a good friend". But, life must go on, right ?
@tatiana07 (497)
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
i never experience that situation but if in case i am in that case, well, as far as i know that i'm not doing anything bad to her/him and then i'll found out that she/ he blocked me then i'll let her/him be.i'll surely be upset but what can i do she/he don't want to be friends with me anymore. it's very hard to find friends online so if you find one then treasure it. happy mylotting!
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
ur right. if he does that, he does not value the friendship and feel that he is not worth it. i let it be.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
hello little! at first i will really feel sad & disappointed, for losing another friend..that is if he's really a friend especially when i do nothing wrong to him... and he just misjudged me... if he already blocked me, it only means that he don't want to talk to me anymore, in that case, i will not push my self on him...if he don't like me anymore to be his friend, and don't like to talk to me anymore, then i can't do anything about it anymore, just let him...and just charge it to experience!
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
i don't have a friend who has blocked me in the messenger. i was the one who block some of my chat mates for a reason. i find them rude and nasty and they have ways to insinuate "dirty" sexy things, which i find inappropriate. u can easily notice if someone is doing this ... i find this disrespectful. in case someone blocks me, i will try at first to ask what wrong have i done to deserve it. if he doesn't answer and ignores my questions, i will leave him in peace and respect his decision.
@getbrowser (1708)
• China
9 Oct 09
I haven't met such a situation before. From where I stand, it is difficult to contact your friends on the Internet if they just have blocked you. You know, you can try to contact them if you have other ways to keep in touch with them. If they block you, perhaps they have been tired with you. Give your friends some space and just forget it. They may contact you to be on the initiative someday.
• Philippines
16 Mar 10
Your friend will not block you if there is no valid reason. Identify first the reason why your friend did that and you still have other ways to communicate with your friend. You can call her or text her or you can send her an email. You have to know what is it that you did that he/she finds as a threat. I will feel bad but I will not stop from there.
@dodyast3 (1514)
• Indonesia
9 Oct 09
It depends on what you feel. Do you feel you have threatened him/her? If you do, then you can contact your friend through email and explain everything to fix things up. But if you think you didn't threat him/her, then I will forget about him/her and move on. Someday, he will contact you back.
@bettydeng5 (1822)
• China
9 Oct 09
I once use MSN to chat online with my friens, but sometimes I was blocked by my friens, and I can't send the message to her, but I will send an email to tell her and let her to unblock me, that is it.