do you have any regrests in your life????
By jenely103085
@jenely103085 (79)
Philippines
October 9, 2009 1:16am CST
i have a lots of regrets in my life... that i made it very wrong and i realized its too late... but i always consider that i am just a human.,,.. and the most important thing is every mistake , you will know how to make it right.. because i do believe that mistakes is your best teacher...But i am so sad when i made something wrong and when i realized it wont be back to normal.. It made me so depress ,,but as of now..i tried so hard not to make again and think it many times.. before i will make any moves .....
and you???
14 responses
@lilyliu (31)
• China
9 Oct 09
Absolutely,we all make mistakes in our life.But i never regret in my life.
the mistakes have been made and we are not gonna to spend time to think about what we have done.The fact is the fact and we cann't change the life. what we need to do is what we learn from these stuffs and never makes this kind of mistakes again.
the beauty of our life is unpredictable. so just face this unhappy things and don't regret and think of "if it's happend or if it's not happend, I will do...."
@wanghui0210 (218)
• China
9 Oct 09
Hi, I have the same experience with you. I also have a lot of rerets in my life. Manytimes I think if I knew it earlier, I would not make this choice. However, we don't have time machine, so we have to accept the result, although we don't want to. Good Luvk.
@neo_matrix (884)
• India
9 Oct 09
hi! jenely103085
to err is human.its just that life rarely gives you a second chance.i hurt my best friend ( a guy) a lot because he had developed feelings for me and i was involved with someone totally undeserving.now when both of them are gone ,i can realise how my friend had tried to protect me from getting hurt as he knew my ex to be non-genuine. but since he had proposed me a few days ago, i thought him to be jealous and trying to break my relationship.i got so rude to him,insulted him and broke all ties with him ..all to realise my folly later.i wish i had a time machine to undone what i did..i wish my friend gets back to me as before...wishful thinking (sigh)
@indybaty (368)
• Panama
9 Oct 09
Hmmm hi jenely!, dont feel so blue, we all have something that we reget doing or not doing but Ill tell you mine.
I have 2 regrets.
One, is that I never had the nerve or the courage to start a horrorthon for Halloween. It may sound ridicolous (sp?) but now where Im at in my life, I really cant do anything like that.. even if I would want to.
And second, its that I stopped belly dancing. I only did so because I thought my husband at the time didnt agree with it, but at least this is something I can get back to.
Happy Mylotting
@lovelyn_medrano (3070)
• Philippines
9 Oct 09
Repentance is always at the end. If we don't want to fall on that, we should be very careful with everything that we do. It will be wise to think not just twice but thrice before finally acting. Asking for suggestions and opinions of others will surely help in making a wise decision. Never ever forget to ask for God's guidance and wisdom. Am sure we will never be wrong if we do that.
@oda_crem (25)
• Philippines
9 Oct 09
Hi jenely!,
There are times that I am also feeling that, I want to rewind the time then I will correct all of my mistake. But I cannot rewind it I dont have any choice but to face the reality and try to be carefull. I hate making mistakes " i guess all of us feels it" because making mistakes makes me sad and so depressed. Somebody told me that I should not feel that way, instead I have to think how to overcome that mistake. JUST BE PROACTIVE ^_^
@OrangJuice (687)
• China
9 Oct 09
In fact, I seldom regret what I have done. For example, I spent too much time on reading and relaxation when I was a student. Sometimes, I feel regret but it's not true, because, if I had second time, I would make the same choice.
But I really made some mistakes which hurt others very much. I don't think it can be called "regret". I think it's "fault". I really regret for the faults I made before. Now I really pray for those who were hurt by me are living well and happily.
@o_utsider (371)
• China
9 Oct 09
Of course.I think every one have regrests in life.No man is perfect.
Maybe every day i will have mistake.The important thing is to learn something from mistakes.
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
9 Oct 09
Hi,jene,Doing mistakes and taking wrong decisions are more common in every body's life.But we take care not to repeat the same.But there are some mistakes we never execuse ourselves.
When i completed 10+2,i had options to join in Degree with Medicime or Agriculture.But as i assumed that Medicine means,i have to do operations and fear about blood,injections made me to join in Degree with Agriculture.Still i feel that it is a wrong decision.
Have a nice time and hapy mylotting.
@irene3184 (898)
• Philippines
9 Oct 09
I do have lots of regrets in life but I kept moving on because I can't turn back time for me to make up my mistakes. I just keep things on my way back by learning from it and not to do it again.
@dollarku123 (16)
•
9 Oct 09
it always comes sorrow endeed, patient, brave and try to get better is the way yu have to do. make your failure as a valuable teacher, kept the spirit of comrade.
@liqiuyue8308 (17)
• China
9 Oct 09
We often hear that don't feel regret for what you have down.As for me it is another thing.Like you I have many regrets.I always bear in mind some wrong decisions and tell to anyone whom I am acquainted with.I would not be what I am now,if I chose to do in another way.I often think like that.I think it is not good to think like that.I often feel regretful for some little things,as it is my negligence but ability that lead to something wrong.I know that regrets increase my spirit burden,whereas I can't control myself.
@blue_raine (257)
• Philippines
9 Oct 09
yeah... a lot of things i regret..thinking that what if i i grab that opportunity, or what if i did not do that thing, or what if i do that thing maybe i'm like this or like that. but that's part of life we chose the wrong choice, but the good thing is that we have still time to stand up from those failures and regrets..sometimes that is God's way for us to learn to value things that we have and that will come on our way.