Always noisy with a lover how to cope

October 9, 2009 2:11am CST
I have a problem in my life, I often noisy with my boyfriend even small things can become big problems that I sometimes wonder how my relationship is fate, whether I had a lover does not love me anymore and what should I do, I need input from you help me..
4 responses
@nagikka (407)
• Italy
9 Oct 09
You know the classical "count to 10 before doing anything at all" is the key to your problem. Think twice about it and ask yourself If it's realy worth quarelling with your boyfriend. My mom used to act the same way untill my dad told her "look, this way you'll spend more than half of your life being mad". She changed :)
@dodyast3 (1514)
• Indonesia
9 Oct 09
There are some couples who are matched to each other, I mean, they can talk to each other and understand to each other. They never have a big argument on something. On the other hand, there are some couples who always have arguments on anything, even the small things. It does not mean that your partner does not love you. it just because you have some differences and have different way of thinking, different preference, etc. I know a couple who is married for many years already. They have 2 children. The oldest will go to college very soon. They are fighting and having big argument on everything, every day.. They still able to keep their marriage with differences among them. For your case, I cannot suggest anything. It is entirely up to you whether you want to continue the relationship or not. But one thing for sure, the argument is happened because every one wants to be a winner. So try not to force your preference to your partner, and hopefully, your partner will do the same. Good Luck
@picjim (3002)
• India
9 Oct 09
Try to avoid going into arguments.If possible veer things around to topics of mutual interest.discuss topics which will arouse love and understanding in one another.There are so many pleasurable activities like music,movies and travel.Try to take your thinking to these and yet if the person persists in being argumentative then its best to bid adieu to such a relationship.
@aceduave (61)
9 Oct 09
Do you mean nag to your boyfriend? I think that its not healthy to be a nagger. Come to think of it, you are just the girlfriend, how much if you become his wife? it's faith and trust honey that will make friendship last longer.