Will you answer a stranger's call or message?

@mikeowl (200)
Malaysia
October 9, 2009 1:30pm CST
If there is someone who calls you or message you through phone. Will you talk or reply them if you do not know the caller? It's kind of ackward and weird to have someone you do not know trying to talk with you. Will you start a conversation with a stranger? I myself usually would not do that, but if it's a girl with a sweet voice, maybe I would. How about you?
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23 responses
10 Oct 09
If I hear my phone ring and I don't recognise the number, I will always answer because it might be a friend on someone else's phone. I answer to see who it is and what they want and then if I am not interested if it's just someone cold calling then I usually just hang up.
11 Oct 09
Some people say that if it's really important then someone will ring back but that is no good if it might be someone ringing you about a job or whatever it is I would still want to know what it was they had phoned for.
@mikeowl (200)
• Malaysia
11 Oct 09
It's true lakerfanster. I am on the same side with you. I usually answer the call first to make sure who's the caller at least to know it could be someone I knew. Thanks for your comment and Happy Mylotting.
@angeliam (206)
• China
10 Oct 09
yes,i will answer a stranger's call.why not.maybe you can get valuable imformation.it cost you nothing to answer a call.but i won't write back messages to strangers.
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
we are on the same vein. i don't entertain text messages but receive all calls.
@mikeowl (200)
• Malaysia
11 Oct 09
Its true. I totally agree with you angeliam. It only takes about seconds to read messages but it takes time to listen to someone's call especially strangers who might keep babling about their products and sales or maybe a survey.
@manong05 (5027)
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
Yes I will answer the call and hope that the person will introduce himself and state his purpose for calling. It maybe be important. Either he was asked to relay a message of someone I know who for some reasons couldn't make a call or it is an important business matter. We never know so it's wise to answer calls from strangers. cheers!
@mikeowl (200)
• Malaysia
11 Oct 09
Hi manong05, from your comment, I think you might be quite a socialable person. At least you answer the call first and let them introduce themselves. I wouldn't have such inspiration to do such things. Most probable because I am not that socialable person.
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
If its a call of course I can't do anything about it but to answer, it may be important, and it not I will politely decline saying I'm not interested on anything like starting a conversation, may it be a girl or a boy. If it's a strangers text message I will not respond to it unless he introduces himself. It's a waste of time and money if you respond to these none sense people doing nothing but disturb other people, unless its very very important and necessary.
@mikeowl (200)
• Malaysia
11 Oct 09
Hi, d_red_madelaine. Well what if that person is trying to play with you using messages through phones. Maybe your friends or someone who admires you trying to get to you but do not want you to know them first.
• Philippines
9 Oct 09
That really depends on my mood.^_^ Sometimes, I can really handle strange calls well. Other times (and most often) I'm too lazy to use the phone. There was one persistent caller who had been calling for years even though I'm deliberately avoiding him, and who had already told me almost his whole life story. I don't really talk a lot, maybe that's why he loves calling me because I only listen and occasionally share my opinion. I'm bored and I always make it obvious but he probably loves talking. He's so into his storytelling that I can't hang up on him. I always hope then I am not alone at home when phone rings so that I can avoid answering it. I don't think I'm bad, I really listened to him back then. I still know his stories even though he stopped calling 2 years ago. I still think he's a stranger despite of the very detailed self description. As for an unregistered number calling my mobile phone, I always answer that because that's the only way to know whether the caller is a total stranger or someone I knew who isn't in my contacts.
@mikeowl (200)
• Malaysia
10 Oct 09
Wow, it's such a great thing you did there for years. Usually in my part, it usually stopped there after the first conversation. Never been through such a long stranger conversation. After so many years, wouldn't you like to know him?
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
Nope. I am not really interested. But, I do believe that sometimes it makes you feel better when you talk about personal issues to a stranger. I was thinking maybe that was how he felt when he talks to me so I just let him do what he wants, he meant no harm anyway. Thanks for asking.^_^ Welcome to mylot.
@baybay3 (65)
• United States
10 Oct 09
Hey! Typically if a number I don't recognize shows up on my phone I won't answer, I feel that if it is important they will leave a message and then at that time I can figure out if it was a wrong number or a friend who just got a new phone number. One time I had missed a call and the lady left a message on my phone. She was an older lady who had dialed the wrong number. In her message she was trying to get a hold of her daughter to tell her that her father had passed away. I felt so bad for the lady! So I called her back to let her know she called the wrong number so that she could get a hold of daughter right away and tell her about the loss. But I usually don't call the person back if they called the wrong number because I feel like they will eventually figure it out, and I would rather spare them the embarrassment of getting a call back from me.
10 Oct 09
That is sad news, I would not have left a message to tell someone that though, I would have said there's something I need to tell you get back to me when you get this message.
10 Oct 09
Well, sometimes the stranger calls us or texts us with some purpose, maybe promotion something or offering something. I will never avoid that as long as the 'stranger' calls under certain company. But, if the stranger completely bothers me I will never pick the call up or reply their sms. I will be very curios if the stranger knows my identity, my number and everything. But if he doesn't know then I will explain to him that he is calling/texting to wrong number. =)
@mikeowl (200)
• Malaysia
11 Oct 09
Hi charlies2805, firstly, thanks for replying my disccusion. Well it seems to me that you are being very polite to people by your comments. To me, it seems that if the caller is a stranger and he keeps disturbing me with some ignorance words, then I will be quite rude and scold him away.
@animestan (321)
• Canada
10 Oct 09
I usually nvr answer a strangers number if it shows a name i dont recognize on my coller ID. If its just a number,i'll answer it. If its a stranger, i'll just let my answering machine do its job, and if it was important, i'm sure he / she would have left a message.
@mikeowl (200)
• Malaysia
11 Oct 09
Hi, animestan. Well you have your points on not answering the calls on strangers. But what IF an EXAMPLE: If your family members is in big trouble and suddenly their phone is out of batteries and they borrowed someone else phone to call you. Wouldn't you pick it up and listen to it 1st? I think it would be better to answer the phone call to see who is calling 1st and then only reply wrong number if it's a stranger calling.
@vinslounge (1295)
• India
10 Oct 09
If there is a call, I would attend and if I am not interested, then I would not continue talking. I usually never start a conversation with a stranger but in the case of a bus or train journey, I usually start a conversation with a stranger until I reach the destination. Yes, if it is a voice of a sweet girl over phone, then I would definitely not cut the call immaterial she is a stranger or not and that is the usual habit of Human. Thanks for starting the discussion and have a great day. Happy Mylotting. Cheers:-)
@mikeowl (200)
• Malaysia
11 Oct 09
Hi vinslounge, happy Mylotting also. Thanks for having the same opinion with me on the sweet girl's voice. It's quite true it's a human habit for especially for guys. What's wrong with listening to someone's voice even though she might not be pretty, but it's just listening to them.
@marguicha (223776)
• Chile
9 Oct 09
Unfortunatly, I don´t receive love letters (only bills) and those phone calls that want to sell something I don´t want to buy. The romance is out of my life, except for a cpuple of nice friends that call me. Those voices I recognise, of course. I feel that calling an unknown person is very agresive. I like my space and don´t want to have it invaded. So I would just hung up.
@mikeowl (200)
• Malaysia
10 Oct 09
I see, it's true that people prefer to have their own space rather than start having conversation with someone we do not know. It's hard to even start it.
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
hello mike, It doesn't matter if it's a celebrity, it's still a stranger to me, and if the person there looking for is not on my place then i would just say "wrong number" and then hang up on the phone. what if a girl with a sweet voice is a fake or part of a planned crime on your place.
@mikeowl (200)
• Malaysia
11 Oct 09
Hi, LetranKnight25, thanks for your opinion and time for replying my discussion. Well you might be true on the sweet voice talk could be fake or to make a planned crime. But I think I might be bind by the sweet voice myself if it was a pretty girl's voice. But I will be concious on what she is trying to say.
@shally_hh (418)
• China
10 Oct 09
actually no,i never answer a call or reply a message from strangers.but what is really annoying is that i receive many messages everyday from strangers although i protect my cell phone number carefully.
@mikeowl (200)
• Malaysia
11 Oct 09
Maybe there is someone using your phone no and sign up on some unwanted things and you begin to start receiving unwanted messages
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
cellphone - calls and text messages thru the cellphone
i don't answer text messages from people not on my phone list, unless they identify who they are and i am able to confirm that the message really identifies them. for calls, i answer each one of them even if they are not from those listed on my phone. i treat each call as an emergency call because if it were not, he could have just texted which is cheaper.
@mikeowl (200)
• Malaysia
11 Oct 09
It's good to answer the call first as we could know it might be someone you know borrowing someone's phone to call you incase of emergency. It's good to know who's calling first before we hang up the phone.
• China
10 Oct 09
I would not do it ,as you said ,if it's a girl with a sweet voice , maybe I would. lol. good luck.
@mikeowl (200)
• Malaysia
11 Oct 09
Lol, thanks for agreeing with me
@esteria (396)
• India
10 Oct 09
i actually think i am one of the few people who would answer any call and if the person is interested then i can keep on talking. I like to know about different people and what better to do that than to talk to them. I also answer all the telephonic surveys if i have got the time. knowledge is best gained by reading and best learned by telling or listening.
• United States
9 Oct 09
I usually don't answer the phone if I don't recognize the number. I agree with you, it's awkward talking to someone you don't know or weren't expecting a call from. I also like to avoid talking to telemarketers ;)
@mikeowl (200)
• Malaysia
9 Oct 09
It's true that it's feels very weird to talk with strangers. If they just want to have a chit chat and they are not those telemarketers, then will you talk with them? Just lets say she or he feels lonely and just got ditched by her boyfriend or girlfriend. He or she wanted someone to talk too but he or she finds strangers to talk to. Will you talk to him or her?
• China
11 Oct 09
well, I will pick up the phone even if someone I don't know call me, it is my principle no to miss a call, because sometimes my customers would call me, and if I miss a call, I may miss a business. But when I find that the person who called is not my customer, nor my acquaintance, then I would not have futher discussion with him/her, but say good bye to him/her. I will not reply to messages, tha sent by someone that Idon't know, since I think they are scam i believe there are some guys who are extremley borning and dail numbers at random, and talk to someone they don't know. I think those guys are disgusting.
@Wordlinx (506)
• India
10 Oct 09
I am not getting many such calls from the strangers. But very rarely I will get some calls from the telemarketing companies..They will call us and will continue to speak without considering our situation and some of them will not even care about our sayings. It seems they are making the calls to the random numbers. I used to ask them loan without considering their product or service.What ever may be their product, I will ask money from them for interest , if they are not credit card sellers. Only if we ask like this, they are ending their calls.Else they are continuously speaking...speaking..
• China
11 Oct 09
I often got some strange call from the place which are far away from me.i do not konw how to deal with that.
• United States
11 Oct 09
I would never answer a stranger's call or message! It could be some sort of pervert of psycho possibly trying to harm you. Text messages are the worst because you dont here a voice or any emotion whatsoever. Stuff like that is never a good scenario to get involved in.