what do husbands think...
By nra091501
@nra091501 (173)
Philippines
October 9, 2009 8:16pm CST
what do you think are the possible reasons a husband cheats his wife or for some instances, leaves their wife for the other woman? what can you advice a wife should do to avoid this circumstance? why do they cheat? hmmnnn....
2 responses
@quluxiao (19)
• China
16 Oct 09
It's a angry behavior.between the husband and the wife should be lucid and mutual trusting.The women should take some action to avoid this situation.First,the women should approve themself accomplishment in some aspect.only become a elegance women your husband can't leave you to the other woman.The other aspect,you should take care your hunsband.The last,they should communicate with each other.
@nra091501 (173)
• Philippines
16 Oct 09
did you mean a career when you said accomplishment? i think wives should not be abused and should stand up for herself and her kids (if any). i don't approve of those women who just let their husbands cheat on them. i agree with you that there should be an open communication because that's the only way they would know what's going on with each others mind and heart. trouble is, sometimes men can be hard-headed or simply insensitive with their wife's feelings. they tend to think that no matter what happens, she'll be there waiting for him. i just wish those women could set their limit and fight for their right. am i being a feminist here? :D
@Fulltank (2882)
• Philippines
16 Oct 09
Most man would say thats its their wife's fault why they have to look for another woman or cheat. Man also sees his wife at not 100% of what he expected her to be. Lets say my wife is only at 95% of what i have expected her as my wife. The other 5% is what I'm looking for from another woman. Pity for those who didn't know that the 5% will ruin their life. As for the wifes out there, fight for your right as a wife and do what is necessary to do so that your husband will not commit cheating again. Sometimes, men needed to be teach a hard lesson before he sees the right thing to do.
@nra091501 (173)
• Philippines
16 Oct 09
i agree fulltank, wives should fight for their right! don't let them get away with their cheating :D you're also absolutely right that what they see on the other woman is the 5% they're looking for that they can't see in their wife. well they'll be sorry! watch out when the wife strikes back, hehe!
do you think these situations happen because they don't have time for each other? the wife taking care of the kids and the husband working...maybe they just need a little more intimacy (not the bed!) but a little more like when they're just dating. what do you think?
