Our Love Is Three Years Old
By guonimei
@guonimei (10)
China
October 12, 2009 10:16am CST
My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years.It is so fast.I can not believe it,for the scene we got together was still on.I am happy and sad.Our love is still here,we are still the special one for the other.But we are still there,just there.Everything looks like the same.
Is it a happy thing ?
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3 responses
@desteny114 (886)
• United States
12 Oct 09
That is so wonderful I wish you the best on your relationship. I hope and wish you more than three years together and lest make it forever. 
@lovelyn_medrano (3070)
• Philippines
12 Oct 09
Yes I also wish that they end up together. She is lucky and good to be able to preserve their love for each other. Really there is nothing to be depressed about.
@laurynashlee06 (89)
• United States
26 Oct 09
I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now as well and I know exactly how you feel. I love him and I want to be with him but I'm not sure if I'm ready to get married yet but don't want things to change between him and I yet either. Its almost like you don't want to move forward just yet but you don't want things to stay the same either.
@lovelyn_medrano (3070)
• Philippines
12 Oct 09
Hi guonimei! There is nothing to be sadden about your situation. It is good that you guys managed to stay sweet as before. You must be happy because some never lasted that long (well some do but the love was not that strong as compared before). If you wanted to take your relationship one step forward, and that was bothering you, I suggest you talk to your partner. Discuss to him your plans for the future. Ask him when he wants to settle down. You just need to be open to your partner.
If it's merely just a feeling of there is no new to your relationship as if nothing special or unique and it is not that "settle down thing issue" then I guess the best thing that you should do is to make a move. Try to do some surprises do new things and go to new places. There so many things that you both can try and do. Just be willing to exert extra effort.
