Keeping Friendship Alive
By coolsudan
@coolsudan (313)
India
October 13, 2009 1:04am CST
hi frnds.
i'll cut the story in short
after my graduation i felt that everybody was getting busy and we frnds didnt had any time for each other.we enjoyed a lot during our graduation but now when we stepped in outside world we are struuggling to keep our frndship alive.
But still i feel that i may be losing my frnds like this. we meet rarely , talk only during chats, i hate this. i remember the happier days of college and feel helpless for my condition now.
has this ever happened to u??
what do u think . is this the way everyfrndship ends??that is meeting only few times some chats and thats it??
how can i save our frndship??
give me some ideas
2 responses
@jasmeena (846)
• Indonesia
13 Oct 09
Halo,btw where r you from and where did you study?Where a you and your friends working now?i graduated from university in 2001 and thank GOD i still keep in touch with them..any information, from someone`s weding and newborn,they let me know..you have their number or email?just say hi, and hang out if you all have time..it will save your friendship
@coolsudan (313)
• India
13 Oct 09
thats my point jasmeena .very few people find frnds those are with them the whole time . as u said everybody will be in contact email and all will do but i'll miss those college days and the spent time .thanx for replyin
@madugulagopi (1093)
• India
13 Oct 09
Hi friend
That is the problem with everyone. One thing is for sure you cannot maintain the same rapport after you graduate because you have more responsibilities and more works to do. After college the only way you can keep your friendship alive is by chatting or by phone. But you can do one thing. Though it is a big problem meeting everyone, you can meet some of them regularly. There will be some of your friends who are near your place. You can meet them regularly.
The same problem I faced. After my graduation all of my friends went in their own ways. Some are doing their Mtech in other states. Some went to US. some for jobs. Even though we have time we cannot meet because of the distance, so we usually chat on line or by sending messages. You need to get used to it. That is the way of life.
@coolsudan (313)
• India
13 Oct 09
it is sad that i have to get used to this kind of thing .
meeting with those who stay nearby has caused little problems. others thing we have created our separate group. i know they feel lonely the same way we do without them but the loneliness is coming out as grief and ruining the environment we had.
the regularly meeting thing things dont worl much. every time we decide to meet some or the oder thing arises and plan is cancelled
i wish there could be a way to keep our frndship as it was back in our college days.
thanx for ur reply . i appreciate it
