Which one should I choose?
@cristina_2008 (69)
Philippines
October 13, 2009 1:10am CST
I am in love with someone now but another one who is better than him is offering me his love. I love my boyfriend but something's bothering me because I know that the other man who loves me is better than my boyfriend in aspects of career. what should I do? Please give me some advice.
4 responses
@shadow41 (2351)
• Philippines
13 Oct 09
Lol. You should not question this if you really love your boyfriend. What are you looking for? A boyfriend you love and loves you back or just a boyfriend who's rich or can give you security?
By this time alone you already committed a sin to your boyfriend. Maybe you don't really love him. If that's the case then just let go of him now while it's early. If you do love you boyfriend so much then quit thinking about this new guy. Reject him immediately.
For sure you don't want this thing happen to you. What if it's your boyfriend to choose between you and some other better girl? How would you feel?
@mesuaky (397)
• Singapore
13 Oct 09
I agree with shadow, if you really love your boyfriend, even a tiny idea of this question will never go into your head specially into your heart. bringing up this question mean you don't really love him at all cause you are considering to leave him. if you do love him its is automatically tha you will not entertain any other man in you life. Now how sure are you with this new guy if you love him too? or one day if another guy comes along better then you will again question yourself? you have to make a stand. don't go into a relationship if you are not even sure if you love the person or not.
Shadow is right would you like it if thing were the other way around? think hard.
@shajerrl (309)
• China
13 Oct 09
please make your choice from your heart, not from others advice...I believe we all can't get enough information to help you make your decision, feeling is very complicated in our daily life and it also related to your whole life. so please think it carefully and select the one who you think you can commend your whole life with him...hope you can get your happy life, good luck.
@dodyast3 (1514)
• Indonesia
13 Oct 09
You can choose neither your boyfriend or the better guy. It is entirely up to you. Whoever you choose, that's the right choice for you. Why? Because you are having a difficult situation. You can't live happily without a stable financial, there are a long way ahead of you. On the other hand, you need to work harder to love someone just because his financial is better.
So whoever you choose, you need to sacrifice one thing.
