what would you do??
By lhai_11
@lhai_11 (42)
Israel
October 13, 2009 2:05am CST
hey guyz..what would you if youre missing someone so much??
but you can afford to see him because of his job..
hurts like hell
5 responses
@jndlponti (2402)
• Philippines
13 Oct 09
I have experienced that thing before. The guy is already now my husband, but before when we were still engage; we were in college that time and we studied in different universities in different city. We just see each other once a year. At first it was really hard. I had a lot of nights crying on my bed for missing him a lot, because we used to be with each other before we get to different schools. Later we have adjusted to the situation. We have a dream, so we have to sacrifice for that. Time will come for you to be together. And always remember this "never ever lose contact with him" that is the only way that would make your relationship stronger though you are away from each other.
@jndlponti (2402)
• Philippines
14 Oct 09
is he already a policeman? Maybe still in training to be one? Because I heard that policeman are not prohibited to use phone even in duty. My uncle is a policeman, maybe for about 13 years now. He can always use his phone anytime...Well when he was still in training 13years ago ofcourse he cannot use the phone, it is a stickt rule their. But don't worry 6 months will just pass as if its just a month. Just have to trust him. I know you are too worried of that. It is really like that. Any relationship needs sacrifices.
@darksorrow (4666)
• Bangladesh
13 Oct 09
Hi lhai,
I have been in this situation many times and to be honest there is nothing that could work on me. Some said go out and hang with friends but it also did not work. The thing is i missed her like hell. Our heart does not stay in our control when we are in so much love.
@mesuaky (397)
• Singapore
13 Oct 09
hi lhai, funny to know this but actually i am also currently in the same situation like you are now. what i do is try to divert my attention to other things like my craftings and diet / excercise. we communicate a lot by chat and web camera but sometime i do feel its not enough. but i have no choice. and its not easy to be together either as he is in a different country but we try our best to be available for each other always.
@lhai_11 (42)
• Israel
14 Oct 09
that's what im trying to do now..but i cant help it...maybe im just used to that he is only a call away..lucky you, you can talk anytime you wanted to..in my situation we cant talk for the next 6 months...they're not allowed to go out or even use their phone..
