would you accept your friend is a lesbian or a gay?
By cheriezhao
@cheriezhao (246)
China
October 13, 2009 5:33am CST
we all know it's common that the people of the same gender fallen in love with each other,they are just like common lovers,even there are some bars specialize in serving for those lovers,in my opinion,i guess that's ok,but if he or she is my friend,i can't understand them,i would persuade them to stop this.so what do you do if your friend is lesbian or gay
4 responses
@daliaj (5674)
• India
13 Oct 09
I live in a country where there are very few lesbian or gay people (I won't say there are none). Recently only a law came that it is allowed to be a lesbian or gay depends on a person's preference. I am totally new to this concept. I am sorry to say that I can't accept this. I will be shocked and scared to if I find out that my friend is a lesbian or gay.
@cheriezhao (246)
• China
13 Oct 09
i just think i can't accept that if i found out that my friend is a lesbian or guy,but i can't deny i would never break with him or her as a result of this!lol
@XperImenT (117)
• Canada
14 Oct 09
yes but just because that's how they ARE doesn't mean i have to like it...sure i can accept it but i would feel uncomfortable around them so i would probably distant myself from that person..
most serial killers have different brain anatomy..their aggression center of the brain is bigger and their emotional part is smaller...which means that's how they were born and that's how they are genetically..does that mean i should be fine having a serial killer best friend ??..i know that was an extreme example but im just trying to make a point.
I think we are entitled to have preferences of who we hang out with...
@vikkiz (518)
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14 Oct 09
I agree with you and i dont mind gay people at all, i see them as normal as any other person On the otherhand like i said before my partner hates gay people and just says thereason is because he thinks its moraly wrong??? Which is fair enough because thats his opinion, The only thing i dont like is people slagging gays off or having a pop at then because they have no right
@vikkiz (518)
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14 Oct 09
Gay people do not bother me in the slightest and i have a few gay/lesbian friends, why would this make you uncomfortable?? I have this conversation with my other half all the time as he is like yourself, He kind off hates gay people??? and thats fine but i dont want him slagging people off in front of me because of their sexuality and especially not if they are my friends!!! I know all people have a different opinion on this especially MEN! Men cant seem to get their heads round 2 men together which i think is fine if they dont want to be around it....but they should kepp their opinions to themselves, I would never try and tell my friend they shouldnt be with the person they love! why would you want to make them feel unhappy just because you feel uncomfortable???
@Fulltank (2882)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
No problem with me. Aside from the gender, I also didn't choose the ages of my friends 10 years old or 75 years old. It doesn't matter if his well-educated or hadn't learn how to read and write, an executive or a simple taxi driver, a poor or rich one. It doesn't matter if he/she is just in reached or miles away from home. A healthy person or an HIV positive. As long as the friendship is there, no problem with me.
