what should i do in this situation?

American Samoa
October 13, 2009 9:26am CST
It happened once in my life. I fell in love with a girl through her smile and her simplicity and everything from her. But i have learned that she is currently serving God [in a youth group] and that keeps her super duper busy. I do not know what to do. Plus, we do not have the same lifestyle and experiences. There are more school works, i can't take much time with her, there are things to do in home, i can't be with her. All I do is just. . . think of her smile and wait for the time that she'll know about my feelings for her. I've spent like thousand sleepless nights just by thinking of her. What do you think? should i continue to love her or just move on?. . . i can't move on because of her smile that i may not forget T__T it's so complicated T__T
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pk1313
@pk1313 (31)
• India
13 Oct 09
Love! Love! Love! Do you love her? Express it... There is no alternative. In any form that can be expressed. But at the end of the day you must finish up with those three magic words. That means much. According to you if she has all the goodness of being humble, sober and many such attributes, you must agree, she is not acting with you. So, she behaved in such manner with all others she come across. Now, the question is, there may be some more like you, who feel similar towards her. As we all love beautiful thing, smile, people etc. Now considering her situation, or putting yourself in her shoes, if somebody has already expressed the feelings to her, what are her alternatives? To say yes, or, ha ha! don't panic... 'Take some time'. Why? As she also loves you, but, alas! there is no motion from your side. Go ahead, tell her about your feelings. Tell through some reliable person, tell my SMS and ping her whether she received the message or not! Tell by taking some private time from her to say some important things, Tell by any means, but tell. If both of you are for each other, shortcomings of the process of saying will be ignored. Let her hear at least once that you love her from anywhere.