if you love a girl in high school,would you tell her?
By zhouxi
@zhouxi (1752)
China
October 13, 2009 7:50pm CST
if you tell her you love her,she refuses you ,what would you do?do you think it true love when you in high school?if you are parents,would you allow your children fall in love somebody in high school?if the girl accept you, how could you control yourself?do you think this would affects your study and future?
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5 responses
@michaeldadona (5684)
• Malaysia
14 Oct 09
1. If you love a girl in high school,would you tell her?
Yes and why not? I must convey my heart message to her 'I love you'.
2. If you tell her you love her,she refuses you, what would you do?
That is a common thing because a girl will reject any force value in love because you used the word 'refuse'. I'll not perform that way and I'll look for what thing she does like much. I mean, the criteria of her liking.
3. Do you think it's a true love when you in high school?
Surely I do because true love comes from the bottom of my heart. Love is loss of valuable energy, its losses is a proof of high fondness. Without feeling that kind of 'floating loss' there will be no missing feeling.
4. If you are parents,would you allow your children fall in love somebody in high school?
It's a human nature property, I will encourage my kids how to drive and negotiate with their love world. When my kids in love zone, I am very happy because it's an indicator that my kids are normal human.
I'll bolster them learning how to embrace that kind of 'bond of trust' with positive values. I'll visit their partner's family to ensure that my kid falls into the right hands. Meaning that, my kid must aware about things which I care. That's my reaction to show that I also love my kid by promoting love is care.
5. If the girl accepted you, how could you control yourself?
Focus my relationship towards future life development and the pragmatic planning.
6. Do you think this would affects your study and future?
From my answer at Item 5, yes it helps much for my academic learning process including at tertiary level. Shouldering each other for what are the meanings of duty and responsibility in love world. Its beneficial values meaning a lot, once driven by good wishes.
@michaeldadona (5684)
• Malaysia
14 Oct 09
hahaha!...don't worry about agree or disagree on my points of view because we are human with different backgrounds and life formations. The beauty of human is having different personality, justly like our finger print will never be the same.
Thanks for the BR, anyway. Appreciated.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
14 Oct 09
I doubt it's really love, you know when you're young and in that age, hormones go crazy and you feel confused over a lot of things, including love.
I think any parent would not want their kids to go prioritizing relationships over school at any point in time. You'll somehow see in the future when you finish school that it wasn't love after all.
Let it go, just hang out if you want, but don't be romeo and declare things you have no means of being responsible for.
I have seen a lot of people in my high school and college years who just didn't get on with their relationships. They ended up marrying someone else.
If you tell her now, what is the difference? Can you make a home for her and have her as your wife now? Well, many would say I'm corny or thinking too much, but that's what most teenagers are not thinking about, thus a lot of problems occur like teenage pregnancies, out of school youths and etc.
So before declaring or something like that, take it easy, think that it's only your hormones going crazy. Know her and see if the shoe fits, should the relationship blossom till you finish school, then perhaps it is. Otherwise, I tell ya, you're just wasting your time.
@maezee (41988)
• United States
14 Oct 09
I would tell her if I were you. Why not? Life's too short not to. And it's not like parents can control who you fall in love with. YOU can't even pick that; it's out of anyone's control! I definitely think LOVE affects your study & future.. It pretty much takes it's toll on ALL aspects of your life. School, your career, future, and so on.
@sharlionse (739)
• Philippines
14 Oct 09
Though it is too early to say that it is true love, that love can be entertained. Yes, I would tell her though I should prepare myself first from any negative reactions. It's fun to fall in love.
@yeebutler (48)
• China
14 Oct 09
when i was in high school i fall in love with a girl.And i told her the truth that i love her.Then i was refused.After that i study harder, and i improved my grades quickly.lol. It's things 5 years ago.I even think true love exist in primary students.Just be youself bravely,my friend!