Do you share everything with your spouse even your privacy?

Indonesia
October 13, 2009 9:13pm CST
I wonder with my friend relationship with her spouse. As if there is no secret, no privacy..even she reads her spouse SMS, wears her spouse clothes, reads her spouse's letter, etc. Then I ask myself to what extent we share everything with our spouse Is there something called privacy that we can respect each other?
7 responses
• Malawi
14 Oct 09
It depends on what you think should be private in your life. I believe that as spouses you have to share most of the things. If you try to be more private with some of your things, expect a sense of mistrust between you and your spouse or it will pain you when your spouse does likewise. Unless you clearly mark your line between privacy and non-privacy, there will always be confusion.
• India
14 Oct 09
Yes,definetly i do share everything even my personal matters with my spouse.my spouse also shares with me his each n every feeling.i read his personal mails n msgs also.he also shares with me his each n every feeling and small affairs he had also.by sharing everything with ur spouse even ur personal mATTERS MAKES U come close 2 each other n understand each other easily.if we take each n every thing positively in our life,we can live even more happily in our life.Do u share every thing with ur spouse?
@shajerrl (309)
• China
14 Oct 09
Actually not, I will not share all everything in my heart to her, I believe everyone should have his/her own secret in his/her deep heart, this secrets only can share with himself or herself...but in another point, I always think we should trust each other between you and your spouse, you should share all the points to your spouse that can relate to your relations, or affect your family life...
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
14 Oct 09
I guess everyone has to decide for themselves how much they want to share and how much privacy they want to have. My husband and I are very open with each other. Although we rarely feel the need to, neither one of us care if the other looks at the recent calls on our cell phone or reads any SMS messages there. We read each other's mail. My husband doesn't wear my clothes but I sometimes wear one of his tee sirts to bed. He seems to like that alot actually.
@Fulltank (2882)
• Philippines
14 Oct 09
Not all things can be shared with the husband and wife. For example, work related issues are better left at the office. If you carried it over to home, it will affect your family. That's why I never carried work related task to my home. Another examples are secrets that are left secrets is it will inflict frictions between husband and wife. Detailing your intimate moments with your past relationships are not good to share also.
@ween04 (10)
• Philippines
14 Oct 09
my wife never read my sms and i too never read or use my cell so that we can have our own privacy
@bettydeng5 (1822)
• China
14 Oct 09
I think not everything for the spouse's can share, including the isomerism friends, private secret etc, that's not share.