love without pain is just a game.

Philippines
October 13, 2009 10:23pm CST
how true is it? i have loved and experienced to be hurt. but is it possible for us to love without even hurting ourselves? can we call it just an infatuation if ever you do not experience pain? please help me deal with it.
4 responses
@dhysanne (449)
• Philippines
25 Oct 09
Yes, we can still love without getting hurt. Just look on the positive side of loving that person. Think what is right for you so you will not end up hurting yourself. We get hurt because we expect that person to give us the kind of love that we want. It hurts if you expect too much.
@pede_22 (385)
• Philippines
14 Oct 09
Definitely yes! Love without pain is just a game. A relationship will not succeed if it didn't't experienced in this what we call-PAIN. Although it hurts sometimes, but what matter most is that you must learn from it and strengthens your relation...
@manong05 (5027)
• Philippines
14 Oct 09
When we are attached to something or someone we are making ourselves vulnerable to pain. Breaking the attachment hurts. Failing expectations hurt and ultimately losing the one we are attached to, hurts a lot. But this is a risk we have to take when we love someone. That being said, even games are not immuned to pain. Losing the game hurts as well. have fun
@med889 (5941)
14 Oct 09
Loves knows no barriers and when we are in love we can only feel good however when we are sure to start a relationship for good then sometimes we do encounter pain but this is not the pain which is unbearable but a pain which we accept to take because it is for the good establishment of our relationship with the one we love in life. When my partner says or do something which make me feel bad then I do feel the pain but then I also do realize one cannot be perfect and we do make mistakes so we can also talk about it to our partner.