To moms and dads : how did you feel when your first child was born?

Indonesia
October 14, 2009 7:33pm CST
Did you have those tears of joy in your eyes? Was it a big relief after waiting for your little for 9 months? How did you feel when you hold him/her for the first time in your arms? Our baby will be here in January 2010. So, I'd like to peek a little some joys that I hopefully will have. Any stories are appreciated!
6 responses
@my125125 (818)
• Malaysia
19 Oct 09
Now I am father of three months old baby girl. When my wife on labor, I do stand beside with her, and look at the baby born in front of me, that's amazing, and I don't panic too when I saw so much blood, I feel so surprise. After that I follow my new born baby girl to the nursery room, waiting the nurse cleaning up the baby, and put her into the baby room. That's the first time I hold her in my arm, she so soft and cute. There are also had others baby borned on that day too, I also got take photo on her ( the doctor always remind me to take the photo). These three months was the most busy day for me, you will enjoy it, take care!
@my125125 (818)
• Malaysia
20 Oct 09
Please do remember to bring camera to take the photo of your child, or using your mobile photo to take the photo also can. Your husband should help you to take care your first child when you are in confinement (may be you can ask him to take holiday), and take your full rest in your confinement, wishing you have a happy confinement.
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• Indonesia
20 Oct 09
Oh, I sure will bring the cam!
• Indonesia
20 Oct 09
Aww..what a wonderful experience! I hope my husband will be as strong as you to be with me in the delivery room. Congratulation to your daughter!
• New Zealand
16 Oct 09
Hey there well I was happy but sad as I had not long lost my father when my daughter was born but I still loved her very much Love luvmydaughter xoxo
• Indonesia
16 Oct 09
Aww..that sounds dillematic. But I am glad your daughter brings joy to you. Welcome to mylot, hun! Xoxo
• New Zealand
17 Oct 09
Hey there thanks for the reply
@shajerrl (309)
• China
15 Oct 09
Firstly congratulations you will have your baby next year, I think it's your great time then, you and your spouse will get more pleasure from your little baby. so remind you kindly that you should spend your less time on computer, mobile phone or other electronics device for your baby's healthy. though I haven't a baby now, but I really hope I will have my first baby in the next year,,i like baby very much, now i have got my house on my own effort, so I think i am ready for a baby now..lol...thanks
• Indonesia
16 Oct 09
Wow! Congratulation on your new house! That's such a wonderful news. Well, we are still working on saving to buy a house. Because baby comes first, so she's our priority now lol. May your wishes for baby come true! Good luck!
@cjfoust (614)
• United States
15 Oct 09
I too will be delivering our first child in January. We are super excited and a little nervous at the same time. We are expecting a girl, how about you? Good luck! I hope all goes well for you. :)
• Indonesia
15 Oct 09
Oh, really? That's amazing, congrats, hun! The doctor said we are having a girl also, what a coincidence! Lol. I wish you all the luck for your delivery!
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
15 Oct 09
congratulations for the both of you... :D i haven't been married and i haven't been pregnant instead, i'll with you my parents' experience when they had me. my dad used to have some sort of vices and he loves to gamble. my mom spends a lot of time hoping that my dad will soon change for the better. i can't say that my dad is an irresponsible father but he's just too friendly that he really can't say a "no" to his friends. when my mom gave birth, having me as a baby, my father just changed for one good reason that he is now a father. i guess that's just one of the many changes that any baby could make... :D
• Indonesia
16 Oct 09
That's amazing! I think that's why many people believe (including me) that babies are miracles. They are the most wonderful thing that can happen it this world. They can change even the things that seem impossible to change. Ain't that superb?
@nra091501 (173)
• Philippines
15 Oct 09
i gave birth c-section to both of my kids. when my eldest was born, the pediatrician informed us that he has less blood clot (i can't remember the term she used, but it's basically the blood clot) than normal and that we'll have to leave him at the hospital for a week for the treatment. he'll be incubated and antibiotics will be injected to him. i forced myself to calm down because breaking down won't help. those waiting days at home feels like endless. i feel so useless for my child and i keep thinking it's my fault that he's got deficiency. my husband would go to the hospital everyday to check how's our baby is doing. and then finally the wait is over! the joy we felt at finally having him home is priceless. and i really prayed hard the next time i got pregnant that it won't happen again. i hope you have a healthy baby and have a safe and easy delivery!
• Indonesia
15 Oct 09
Aww...you're a tough mama! I'm sure your children will be so proud of you when they grow up. Your story almost bring tears to my eyes. Very inspiring! Being a mom isn't an easy job! Bravo to you!