understanding men and ourselves

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never did it cleared my mind why men and women acts differently to any situation in life after reading this book. Always and always there's always a battle on why men can't understand us and why us can't understand men. some points which stuck my mind are: men can't guess what we want, what's bothering us, in short..THEY ARE NOT MIND READERS!!! We on the other hand wants be understood at all times no matter how unreasonable we are. And take note, we don't want to tell him, we expect him to know what's on our mind. another thing that we have to keep in mind is..we can think of two or more things at the same time while men cannot. Example..we can think how the kids are at home while at work, at the same time think about how our friend who has a problem with her husband, what to shop for dinner and consider if you have extra funds to treat the kids for a weekend at the beach. Men are different, while at work they focus on work, while fixing the car they can skip a meal just to finish what they are doing. we need to tell them that we miss to have dinner outside, to have a short time alone with them. They may seem insensitive at times but that's how they are. It was the best book i have read. I understand better now and can adjust more to the differences we have because..plain and simple...men are not women, just as women are not men..