do you believe in second chance?

For me I believe the second change because my husband and I have that situation but not the type of love have a third party it's the situation of he don't know to build the relationship but he knows to court. But when I break him for one and after a month he court me and i gave him a second change.

I believe in second chances but I'm afraid it'll not have a happy ending anymore. reconciliation is so difficult to make if trust is already broken, but when the heart decides, noone can question it anymore.

hi, yes i believe in second chance.. just like God... He gave us second chance to live.. he for give us in our sins.. and He sacrifice His son Jesus Christ.. thats why for me, i believe in second chance... and we can forgive... thanks for sharing.. have a nice day and happy mylotting... ^_^

It's hard to give a second chance to anyone that has hurt you in the past. I think that it's a good thing to give someone a second chance but you just don't know if they are going to turn over a new leaf and so forth. If you don't give them a second chance then you may lose out if they have changed their ways as it were! However, a good friend betrayed me by stealing from me, I never gave him a second chance, that was it! This was quite a serious thing in my book! Andrew

yes i believe in second chance.all we have the right to get a second chance to the matter of heart,the trust,respect and love that we have invested in. in case of trust it is hard to believe a person who cheated once but if he/she feel sorry by heart or realize his/her guilt then they must get a second chance.it is another thing that you don't want to get back but should be forgiven.think what would happened if God does not forgive us? we are human being and do many fault but God always give us second chance than why shouldn't us.you can make a mistake but if you feel sorry then you should rectify you're mistake.

I believe in second chance, but not in third chance. I think that everyone makes mistakes, but when you make a lot of important mistakes, you can't be forgiven each time and just forget about it.

i do belive in second chances, i have given many second chances some was a good thing and well others werent. there is an old saying shame on you the first time, shame me the second time, there is no third time at all

If it is just a boyfriend-girlfriend thing. I also don't give second chances but if it is marriage, I will definitely give it a second chance before I totally say that it is all over. I often believe in sanctity of marriage and will make every to make it work and also deciding to get married is not easy to do because it really entails responsibility by being loving, patience, hardworking and forgiving.

I really don't believe in a second chance. Life is only once & chances are only once. So we should be wise enough to utilize the chances we are getting. Happy Lotting

Yes, I believe in second chances. The trust cannot be given outright of course that's why one must be cautious. Personally, if I was the one coming back I try to prove to the one I love that I'm more mature and sincere now more than ever for I learned my lessons well. I don't agree with you that love is only used as an excuse just to be convenient. Sometimes people need to experience the hardship to realize the importance of someone in their lives. People needs inspiration and love to get to do their thing in their day to day lives.

Hi ween04! I think it depends on the person whom you will give a second chance. If you feel the person's sincerity and you believe in your heart that you can accept him or her after what that person did to you then giving second chance can be considered. Never give a person a second chance when you are still not over the thing. Your relationship will only be a disaster... whenever there is something happened, even a simplest thing, which will definitely serve as a triggering device. You will end up arguing again and again. Those bad memories will pop up to your head like a ghost. You should learn to accept and fully forgive the person first before deciding to give a second chance. Second chance is worth giving, aren't you want to be forgiven and receive a second chance when you did something wrong? Deserving people should be given a second chance. But once receive, that person must take good care of that. He should not break it again. One is enought, two is too much!

I would perfectly give a second chance to the person who fail in his first attempt. First attempt is like the trail which is used to know about the particular thing how it works.

yes i do believe in second chance.if we miss the first chance then we can know the value of first chance.so if we get that chance again we won't loose it.i came 2 know the value of first chance after i lose one thing in first chance.thats y i believe in second chance.what about u?

Hello!I think the feelings are very import thing,not a game,treat the feelings,not easily to hand in hand,and if you let she/he go,also should be deliberated,so ,no give a second chance,also don't expect a second chance.

I believe in giving second chances. If the person really regrets what he had done and sincerely feels sorry about it, then he deserves to be given a chance. Unless of course, just like what you said that it is only for conveniece masking as love, then giving a second chance is not worth. Willful and repeated deliberate acts, I think, don't deserve a second chance. enjoy!

hello ween! i really do value trusts. so if someone betrayed my trusts then that's the end of it. but still i don't know if i can say that if my husband is the one asking for a second chance. ofcourse, there are many points to be taken as well as giving a second chance means taking a risks. risks to be hurt again if he'll betray you the second time around.but if love is still there, then taking risks and giving a second chance is not hard to give.. happy mylotting!

It depends on what she's done for us to break up in the first place and of course.. on what terms was the breakup. If she, for example, said some things or did some things that caused to the breakup.. and for it to be unforgettable, reminding me everytime i see her then i wouldn't believe in second chances making a difference. We could possibly still be friends in the long run but honestly why not try for someone else with a clean slate then going for someone again that might drag along old feelings.. it just doesn't make sense..

I disagree. If you met my boyfriend and knew our years history, you'd see, its different for everyone. He met another girl, while in the hospital for reasons I wont say. She was there for the same reason he was. He thought he had lost me, so he persued her. It took all the courage in the world to actually let him go be with her. But when I gave him the chance, the same night, or maybe it was the next night, he came to my house. I had a breakdown. NEVER in my life have I ever saw a guy break down and tell me I am the ONLY one he truly wants and would even drop being her friend to keep me. IT took almost four months, but he FINALLY got rid of her and the number completely. There was another incident that involves her again BUT he stopped himself from everything, nothing real bad. HE learned to trust my instincts and chose me over her. I have given him MANY chances under MANY different circumstances, that I NEVER should have given him. But thats what you do when you're in love and you know they are "The one". And he has given me a second chance at love.

hmm i have a simple plan, accept her back. but filter her promises. gbu