why she do this to me ?who could help me

well if you really love her, set her free. that's the only thing you could do. she'll be much happier with the other guy. i think she just said that she still loves you so that you won't be hurting so much. don't try to hate her, instead, be thankful that she didn't prolonged your agony by thinking that she's really into you. you deserve somebody else.

Hello Weizen, First of all be cool and realize your self. In my case too my GF broke with me stating that "I don't know whether I'm truly in Love with U, and I think I'm not a match for a Good person like you. So lets we be normal." Me too thought that she should be happy and left her so that She'll be happy as her wish... I became normal but there was something in my heart disturbing in me always, Nearly after a year later she came back to me but she never joined with any other boy. And she told me "I thought you might be possessive on me, but Now I've realized" By now I feel the pain in her heart and my mistake... But I live in India and we are in True Love... The culture and People may be different in your locality... It all depends on How much you Love her and How much she loves you... If you are confident that she'll be more happy with you than any other guy in the world, then Just go for her what ever the distance may be... Love has no distance dear friend... All the Best wishes from me friend....! Anyway Welcome to mylot and Happy mylotting...

You couldn't be happy with someone who doesn't want to be with you. If she broke up with you she must have her reasons. She even said she loves another guy. Maybe she thinks of you as a good friend, someone dear to her, and that's why she said she still loves you. I believe the best thing you could do for youself and for her, is to live you life at your best. If you are not satisfied with yourself there will be something missing in relationships, also. That's my point of view, as far as I experienced. Keep cool and go meet other people, make new friends.

If you really love and care that much about her, just let her do whatever she wants. Just think of yourself as lucky because she was very honest to you. Also, if se realizes that she wants to be with you and love you still, she will surely comeback. But as of now, all you can do is just to let her go. I am sure you would not want to be with someone who does not love you anymore. Just hope and pray that someday she will realize that she has let go of someone who loves her so much and hopefully she'll come back to you.

Dear Weizen,How can you be so stupid to understand a girl's feelings.Sorry to call you so but I have been through this and I know what should one do now.See,girls never want to break a relation completely,reason they enjoy being together.We guys are not like them.We are efficient and self-dependent.We either give 100% or nothing in a relation.She is saying she still loves you, she is right but not the way you want.She loves you a dear friend and wants to keep you in her life like that only.Nothing else.But you want her to luv u d way u want.That's not possible.She has moved on.and so you must be.Just remember d gud time you two shared and remain happy for that gift given by God.Now is time to move on dear.Don;t hurt yourself.Engage in some activity.Learn new course or music instrument.As far as she is concerned its upto you how do want to keep her in your life.She will never come back.She wants your friendship,you can go ahead but you also can deny her saying-I want you as my wife not friend.That's it.Be a man dear.She wants everything the way she prefers.It cant happen, tell her,Live your own life.Either you forget her or become a friend which will be more painful(nobody wants to listen stories of his ex's love life).If I can forget her so You can dear.Remember one thing-"Friendship often converts in love but reverse is not possible."have a great life ahead.Enjoy and respect your individuality.