jealousy without a cause?

Philippines
October 15, 2009 8:37pm CST
I don't know if I should get jealous of this girl who I think is flirting with my boyfriend. Though my boyfriend assures me that there would be nothing to worry about, I still get irritated with that girl's presence. I trust my boyfriend but I don't trust the girl and it's so difficult to remove that thing in my mind. Do I have the reason to still feel this jealousy?
4 responses
@Gongfuboy (130)
• China
16 Oct 09
Obviously you have trapped yourself in and whatever I said won't exercise any influence to you, I'll warrant you that such feeling will follow you all the time unless the girl disappears from your range of vision. But it's a common phenomenon that girls always pay attention to their boyfriends when in love, and have some weird ideas or whirl many speculations around their brains. That's the conclusion I draw from my girlfriend's behaviour. Because I don't know the details, so I only have to suggest that you should turn your thoughts of grasping your lover's heart into action, don't be afraid, don't be shy, he's your man, he will forgive everything you do which is conducive to him. Go ahead, please.
• Philippines
16 Oct 09
Thanks. I told him about this already and he didn't fight me whatsoever. He just assured me that there is nothing that i should be worried about. Yes it's true that this is a wierd feeling, women call it instinct. I don't know, it's killing me to think about that girl. :-(
@Agoenxz (551)
• Indonesia
16 Oct 09
It is normal to be jealous in that kind of situation but as long as it dont get to much that will bring uncomfortable to your self, then it still ok! If you have allready trust your boyfriend, well that's good! Keep it up! You should have not to much worries about any other girls.. Unless he get caught up cheating on you, then its alL up 2 you... Ok, have a nice life!
• United States
16 Oct 09
That is irritating. I think I would make my presence known a little bit to make sure she knows he is taken. But, if you trust your man than he will let her know too.
• China
16 Oct 09
I think you should first believe in your boyfriend and believe in your own feeling. Actually,women are sensitive on the such things.You are the girl your boyfriend love,what else do you care? Perhaps that girl love your boyfriend.That is a good proof thay you BF is a good guy.You should feel happy.