no people will love

China
October 15, 2009 10:37pm CST
i am a little girl ,i am not beautiful ,i am not lovly, i am short,no people like me,no people love,why ????i don't like world,how can i save me,how can i do,can you tell me
4 responses
@birdao86 (66)
• India
16 Oct 09
if no body love you i'll love you because i'm single also will you marry me p[lease do keep on contact
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
16 Oct 09
i think no one loves you because you don't appreciate/love yourself. love isn't just about the physical appearance it's about how you carry yourself in behalf of all those obstacles that pulls you down. i used to hate myself in the past because all my close friends have their own boyfriends and whenever they have crushes, it always happen that the ones they've been longing for would soon be next boyfriend. i can say that i have gain a bit of having good looks but i lacked self confidence. i hid myself because of my own insecurities and i realized that i was wrong. i remember one guy whom i really admire since grade school until high school, he knows that i really liked him so much but he dislikes me. for whatever reason, i have no chance of having him. so many years passed, we've met. he was a graduating college student while i was a freshman. he courted me for a reason that i looked much better now than before. since i have a boyfriend and even if i don't have, i wouldn't waste my precious time again for a guy who's not worth it. :D
@eileenleyva (27560)
• Philippines
16 Oct 09
Being loved is a state of mind. If you give love, people will reciprocate. If you think yourself as unlovable, then people will think so too. So look at yourself in the mirror and identify your good points. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. I am sure there are beautiful points which you must highlight for people to see.
@much2say (55686)
• Los Angeles, California
16 Oct 09
I used to feel like you . . . in fact all the time when I was growing up. I had a low self esteem that didn't help, but overall I think I just didn't like myself either. Once I got confortable with myself, I met more people and I built up my confidence. It took a long time (it didn't happen overnight for sure), but I feel I finally "blossomed". Now I like being short - hee hee. Focus on your good qualities and bring it from the inside to the outside. All that you need is right there . . . you just need to convince yourself of it first.