++working mom++
By R_amy26
@R_amy26 (11)
Philippines
October 16, 2009 2:03am CST
hi guys... i just want to share how felt... im the only one whose working.. im the only one paying the bills, i have so many credits at the office...my husband is really trying his best to get a job..but he always fails..sometimes when i got home.. the tears just falls to my eyes when i saw my uniform not yet washed...im really dissapointed coz im so tired working..i want to rest at home and take care my son...im really really tired!!!huhuhu
1 response
@abhikmjmdr (779)
• India
16 Oct 09
Come on, buck up! I know you are having a very hard time but you have a responsibility you cannot shirk.Have you tried sharing your housework with your husband.If he is free he can always do the washing and look after your child. There are a lot of MyLotters who have worked this out and there are house husbands as well and the adjustment works.Why should you have to do both outside work as well as household chores? I am sure you can talk this over with your partner and divide the work up which would ease your pain a little.
@R_amy26 (11)
• Philippines
16 Oct 09
thanks.. yeah, when im tired Iam telling him to do the household chores.. sometimes he did sometimes not..maybe because he's busy finding a job...he sometimes felt that he's paralitic and can't do he's role as a father and head of the family..(self-pitty)..!i know he wants to help me to earn money and provide the needs of our baby...it's really hard to find a job when you are high school graduate only...huhuhu
