what will you do if your partner will give you your freedom for one week??

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@acie_21 (5633)
Philippines
October 16, 2009 6:29am CST
what will you do???will you do things like being single again?? what is the most crazy thing you will do... like dating/making out other guys/girls???? will you make a sin just because your partner gave you your freedom?? and its out of your conscience??? will you take the risk of doing things against your relationship?? or you will stay good and honest to him/her for that freedom he/she gave you?? share your thoughts and comments!.. feel free to post! thanks! have fun..
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20 responses
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
16 Oct 09
this is kind of funny. my wife dont have to say you can whatever what you want, because i pretty much do as i want to do just like her. its not having to ask or seek improveal. i dont or would i ever go out and look for anyone else because no one can take her place in my life
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
16 Oct 09
so sweet syankee... how long have you been married??? how may kids do you have?? thanks!friend... keep in touch! see ya around!
• United States
16 Oct 09
we have been married for 24 years. and we have two kids but they are grown up now at 24. my whole i think is funny how people think they need approval from their partners. i would be like what woman you are my wife not my momma lol. have a bless day
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
16 Oct 09
wow....may i ask.. what trials had you encountered??? tried trails about relationship with other woman??? any situation like that??? thanks friend...
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
I will visit my relatives and friends at my hometown and stay there for the whole week. As I can only go there once in 3 or 5 years. I can go swimming with my friends and will have a good time harvesting fruits and vegetable with my relatives. Am sure that would be a great week for me.
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
Go with friends at the videoke, sing all night with little drinks and probably smoke a little too. I think at my age that's the craziest...hehe but I all have the freedom for 17 years, as I lost my dear husband when I was 37 but didnt do crazy things just enjoy a little with friends when there are occasions...
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
thanks bing.... whats the craziest thing you will do...with that freedom? what you think??? lol!
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
I think I'm going to to a place to relax because sometimes work and family life can be stressful when you're trying hard to keep a balance. Maybe I'll check in a resort and enjoy nature or have spa or just sleep and live a one-week stress-free life.
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
hi there jenalforque... i love resorts!.... hmmmm...but i rather be happy spending in the resort with my hubby..heheeh! you too right???its much fun and exciting if we are with the one we love.. romantic! thanks!...
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
17 Nov 09
Hello acie that was a tough topic of yours. Well, I might feel relax maybe for just a day but beyond that I would not be happy. That happened already to me once and I can't help but wished to let my partner back home again. NO I would still remain behave and refrain and never involve and join some indecent proposals...thanks
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
28 May 10
ok!a very safe answer...whhoooooooot whoooooooot!.. thanks!
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
for me, i will just stay good and honest to her/him, since it is just good for one week. i have no reason to date another guy/girl or make out with those guy/girl. because after one week we will be okay again. that' it.
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
hi freedirt!... thats really right.. what if his doing that....(dating other gals..) will you date others too as a revenge?? or to feel good....?? what you think?? thanks!
@Huan762 (36)
• Canada
17 Oct 09
Love doesn't restrict my actions, I restrict them by choice because I love. So even if I had total freedom, I wouldn't ever think about cheating. I don't cheat because I don't want to, not because I'm restricted. When I'm in love with someone, I don't need anyone else but her (and my friends).
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
hi huan... thats so nice..love is magical!...ohhhh!...love is in the air!..lol! faithfulness is very important in one's relationship.. to have strong and lasting happy ever after relationship!.. keep in touch! stay happy! cheers!
• Malaysia
17 Oct 09
Even though my partner gave me the freedom for a week, I would not go around jeopardize my life with making out with any girls and as well flirt around. That will only destroy my reputation. However, that one week of freedom could be used to catchup with friends whom we lost contact with, and as well evaluate our relationship level.
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
yes your definitely right maikarumike.. thats a good partner... but are you married already..? is that you in your avatar???... thanks!
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
16 Oct 09
hello there! well, i feel like i already have my freedom! hehe..freedom to do anything i want...and my husband never take it away from me...but of course i do have some limitations... but to answer your question..if he's going to give me my freedom for a week? well, maybe i will just spend it with my parents & my brother...and i will never do any stupid thing for that week that will ruin my relationship with my husband for the rest of my life... you know... let's not do things that we will regret in the future...
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
16 Oct 09
heheheh!me too best.. i wouldnt dare do such thing as that... not worth it.... and its a sin...i wont make bad things to separate us... you know how i love my hubby so much..heheheheh! im like a lizard who always stick to him! oh ...funny me..best thanks!
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
ah,freedom!with that freedom,I will have all the fun I want.I will shop until I drop and party like crazy.it doesn't mean I'll be promiscuous and make out with every guy I want.I'll flirt,but just it.no kissing or one-night stands.I think it is a freedom for one day to be me,but not because I'll be single again.
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
hi there friend!... hehehehe!i love shopping!...but i hate shopping if i dont have money!lol!... good girl huh???? me...i cant dare do one night stand...marriage is very important to me.. cant dare ruin it for that... well...i dont need one night stand...i have my hubby to do it anytime i want!lol! thanks!
@Weizen (144)
• China
17 Oct 09
Now I'm coem back the single .hehe .I think I 'll use the these time to accomoany my family and ,my friends .before ,I use my most of time to accompany her. now she left me .so I have more time to do what I do . maybe I'll make a date with other girl.,hehe
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
hi there weizen.. have you been married??? or just gf and bf....??? why...?may i know what happened?? if you dont mind... feel free to post! thanks!
@JamesKYTan (1605)
• Malaysia
16 Oct 09
This does not apply to me. I have freedom almost every alternate week. My job requires me travel out of state or country every alternate week. This is a job of a salesman.
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
ok james... how about freedom to date others?????lol!
@sang25 (61)
• India
17 Oct 09
if my partner gives me freedom for a week i would go over to my friends ,my parents ,visit places and may be buy something that my guy wanted for a long time...or plan a surprise for him..i wont be foolish enough to..cheat on him and ruin a relationship unnecessarily and spoil my own self esteem ..hav fun ...happy mylotting
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
heheheh!thanks sang... hmm...never heard naughty mylotters saying.. yes !i will date other people!..heheh!lol.. were all pretty good here huh?? what you thin sang??lol! thanks!
@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
16 Oct 09
Hi acie_21, Well...If given a chance for a one week freedom? For me i will just relax, maybe go out with friends visit my relatives.But of course i will always stay good and honest to my partner so that he will give me another chance to be free again ha ha ha! I will not do things against our relationship.Always have in mind to obey and follow the laws of God.Good Luck!
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
16 Oct 09
lol!thanks hazelrose... i think every serious relationship ..freedom is not allowed.. i mean freedom to do bad things.... me im always free to do anything i want.. but with limits!...heheheh! thanks! friend its nice mylotting with ya!..
• United States
17 Oct 09
He's probably won't be too bothered if I made out with a gal. Heck, he'd probably would want to watch or film it. LOL. But, mostly, I'd get stupid drunk and pass out on my bed, as long as he take the kids with him during my week of freedom.
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
hi there texastee!.. welcome to mylot!.... lol....hhehehe!...that would be better.. to avoid temptations lol!.. keep on dropping by!.. see ya!..
@coldmoon (1088)
• France
16 Oct 09
If I'm free for a week, what I will do is missing my partner . Well, seriously, I think that a week is a too short period to commit a mistake or a sin. In fact, I have many things to do in order to forget the loneliness. Moreover, I don't think that I'm so weak that I can't stay faithful for the one I love and never betrays me when I'm absent.
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
16 Oct 09
hi there coldmoon.. thanks for the comment... its very nice to stay faithful with our partners.. i admire those people who are strong in their relationship.. and who learns to avoid temptations.. stay happy with your love life!.. keep it up!lol.. stay happy!...
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
17 Oct 09
lol =D This is interesting.. I think i will be doing things which has been out of my reach when i'm still with her.. haha =D I will be eager to catch up with lost times, doing things i wanted to do, but not allowed to do, just because she does not feel involved in it.. hehe ^_^ IT's something more that, things we have been suppressing for the sake of her, but definitely not anything sinful about it.. hehe
@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
26 May 10
i will stay good because i don't want my partner cheating me too. u know... just like karma.
@daliaj (5674)
• India
16 Oct 09
If he leaves me as single for a week, I will just sit at home and sleep for a long time. I also watch some song and movies of my choice and go for a walk in the evening alon. I also make dishes which I like. I am sure that I will soon get bored of the single life and will ask him to stop the drama. All the things I mentioned above, I can do even if I am married. So, there is nothing special to do if I get back to the single life again.
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
16 Oct 09
heheheheh!thanks daliaj... yeah!what if your still in your 20th..and ask you that same question.. will you still risk??? keep sharing!.. have a nice day! friend!
@Ysabel (1201)
• Philippines
18 Oct 09
hi acie! this one is a really very interesting one! i find myself reading the replies of other mylotters and i do enjoy the discussions you have with them!... though very impossible to get a freedom like this one when someone's already married.. mine is just very plain and simple! i would have to get myself a treat to hongkong or singapore, hassle-free, all shopping, with friends,.. no stress from home, (or if i may add from work all together! - he he)... of course i would love to have my special one with me in doing this trip, but it would be a breaker if i do it with friends only. and really friends, like shopping, dining, all fun activites and friends. picture-taking, strolling and all that. i rarely do these things.
• Philippines
18 Nov 09
I don't know. Because i still don't have my legal partner and i don't have my freedom from parents yet. Twenty and here i am, still at home but loving it! If i had my partner, no i don't think i will spend it away from him. Rather i'll do it otherwise.