I'm so unlucky...

this sounds to b gayish man!!!!!!!!!

Simply i can say you are the best and you are very lucky person than us. These ppl don't know how to treat you guys but i like shemale. I am sorry if i hurt you. All the very best for your future and Take care

Do not let society, the church or anyone else put that crap on you. You are different from the accepted norm, but that does not mean you are a mistake. You are the way God made you. People do not always accept anyone who is different. It's their problem, not yours. That is why racism has prevailed almost since the beginning of time. Loneliness and bad relationships are not exclusive to gays. Have faith that the right person will come along for you in good time. Meanwhile, get active in doing things YOU like and enjoy. Usually people meet friends when they share common interests and activities. Do not sit around and feel sorry for yourself. Get out there and enjoy yourself. Don't expect much from the church. History tells us that seldom do they practice what they preach.

I think I could udnerstand your feeling .but I think you 'll meet what you want .in my think I walsy think ,only you pay ,you 'll get the return ,so Don't worried dude ,you 'll get what you want .

Hi ruiz_richard22! Don't be so hard to yourself! There are so many gays out there who are successful in life. Gays are fun to be with. You are a person, you have rights regardless what your gender is... If you don't find a person that will love you the way you wish, why not shift your interest on some other things. Even women are not lucky in love sometimes. Don't say that you are not accepted, now a day, people are very open to that. People are not that conservative as they used to be. That is why you see many gays coming out of the closet already. I think you just need to accept and love yourself. Be happy!!! Welcome to mylot!

I think you are not unlucky. You are just different than most people but it does not mean that you should be unhappy. I think you should accept what you are and not as the most unluckiest person in the world. Try to be happy.

hello ruiz_richard22, in my own opinion, you can still be happy like anybody else. i knew some who is just like you but was able to have a family of their own. they got married to a girl and eventually blessed with children. they used to love a man before when they were younger but nothing happened to their relationship for man were just after their money. till such time that they decided to love a woman instead. now, they were so contented and happy for what they did. you can also do the same. it's not too late yet. it's all up to you so you can be lucky as anyone else. and that is to love a woman - a woman who can accept you.

hi ruiz richard well there have been others like yourself. my son and I have a best friend who is gay, and is married to a man who was once a shemale also He went throught the gender change, and they really are a very happy couple now. so it took alot of time and energy but she he felt trapped in a mans body, and now she looks more girlish than ever. for them this was a costly but perfect solution as they are so happy now, both of them.

When I read what you have written, I see a lot of pain.I am sorry about that. But don't get depressed over this and don't think that you are unlucky. Just have faith in yourself and show the world how wonderful you are. Be proud of who you are. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being gay. I am sure, you will find a wonderful partner who loves you as much as you love him. But first, have faith. :)

Just keep on striving. Strive harder when things get difficult. Do not leave your life to luck. Live your own life and make the short time you have on earth count. If you keep thinking how unlucky you are you will just be depressed. Sure, it is a lot harder to find love for you but when you find it you'll know that it is one of a kind. And if the church does not accept you, well it is their loss! God should love all of his creation after all.

There is nothing wrong with being a gay. I have many friends who are gay and they don't treat themselves unlucky. Find people who could understand you and love you for what you are.

hi, I feel you are very low self esteem,looks are born, who is not going to change,I want you to face life with a positive attitude.only you do not abandon your own, the world will not abandon you.if you have self confidence, your life will be really good,looks in the whole life is not important.do not take too much notice of it,you should focus on cultivating your temperament. by the way , please add me ,I want to be your friend,I am very friendly .

Hello friend,well,from your words it's sound give-up,sad,depression.I'm not good councellor but what can I say you are not alone.Every person have their own strength and weakness.So find out you strengthness and build up your success live.

i know how you feel and i feel sorry that you are feeling that way. living like that must be a constant search for love and affection and there a few people who are lucky to have found someone who have accepted them for who they are. maybe your time hasn't come yet and the time that you have now was meant to be used in searching, not searching for your true love but finding yourself because you should; an dwhen you find it, learn to love it. ^^

I'm sad for how you feel. But you know what, there are different forms of love. Yours may not be a union of two people but it doesn't stop you from being happy. I have known a lot of shemales who are happy with their lives by doing their best not to think how different they are but of thinking how unique they are. As long as you're true to yourself, you'd have friends. Remember that you may not live a life of having only one partner but you could have a lot of companions and friends who'd see you as who you are. Do well in all the things you do, strive to be the best that you can be, and find happiness.

humm ok to be honest with you, i dont understand what you are going through without since i am not in your prosition. but i do belive there is someone out there for everyone. thinking you need to decide what way you want to go and follow your heart. but if you do meet someone and before you get serouis about them or them about you i would let them know and let them decide if they can love you for who and what you are. good luck to ya

Don't be too hard on yourself. I have gay friends who are in great and loving relationships right now so there is definitely still hope for you. Some of those friends even found their special someones before I did. So don't lose hope and don't think negatively. Love will come in its own time. :)

you know what, the church should not discriminate shemales just because of their imperfection because there are lots and lots of shemales who are so gifted.. Im just so lucky i have lots and lots of shemale friends.