My friend borrowed money and never came back

He was my friend but after he got money from me he never came back because he was not caring about friendship. What a bad experience it was.

hello shadow, Normally before I was the one borrowing money but that classmate of mine didn't mind, but it was just once. well, i can relate in terms of false promises, before a so-called friend promise to give me all of his toys, years passed he still didn't gave it to me. that's when i realized that people can truly lie and never true to their word. i never trusted them ever since

I never let this kind of thing happen. If I don't want to lend money to the people ,no matter what reasons he or she have. I will keep my mind. poor man, be carefull of your money next time. happy mylotting.

I would get MAD because when it comes to money I've always tried not to ask people to lend me some, but it happened a couple of times in high school that I forgot my wallet at home and needed a couple of euro's to buy a snack. Anytime I asked for peole to lend me money I IMMEDIATELY gave it back to them on the following day and I never ever forgot to do it. I like to cnsider myself a serious person, someone you can blindly trust. Too bad people don't feel the same, for instance I have an ex-schoolmate who asked me to gave her one of my CD's. It was also an autographed one by Kula Shaker, a british band that I met after the gig they played in my city. It's been over ten years and she never gave it back to me, however she did add me on Facebook and never mentioned my CD so I eventually deleted her for being such a .. well I better skip this part as I dont wanna be banned :)

I would get upset with it. in fact it happened with me many years ago. i was a student and was short of money. my friend borrowed money from me and forgot to return. I was embarrased to ask her return it too. so many years passed my money is never come back to its owner. now i try to forget it, but i don't know how to forget it. when i reply your topic it reminded me of it. I will steer clear of people who like borrowing money.

oh I think it happens at least once to everyone, so we learn from experience. There is a saying my dad used to tell me: If you would like to part from something? loan it or lend it to someone, and you will never see it again.

Actually, I do not lend money to people who are not really close to me. When close, trusted friends approach me to borrow some money, if I have some spare I let them borrow. And I do not ask them to pay it on this time or what. I do not even expect them to pay back. In your case, I would probably would do the same because I may be perceived as selfish if I don't help that person. And true enough, you will be out of his bond and that's a relief really. So you learned now. Maybe next time, you can learn to say NO.

I do not like people who borrow money but never give it back.

I would feel very angry if this had happened to me. I think that it's always a bad idea to share money and borrow money from friends. This can definitely lead to broken friendships. I won't ever go down the road of lending money to anyone as this can only lead to potential problems later on. Andrew

i think it`s bad experience. if i were you, i think it`s reason me to keep away from him. i only say him, dont bother me again. and give my money back :)

A firend of my husband and also a student in our unversity borrowed money from us .he said he was ill badly ,needed money urgently to cure.so we lent him some money.then he gratuated from our university.he never contact us and give us back the money .we know after that,he didn't have disease at all, he borrowed many money from different people with different reasons.what a man!

One thing that I have learned is never to lend someone a huge amount. This will serve as a protection in case, one does not opt to pay back what he owes you, just like in your case.

Hello friends ... The incident was very upsetting and create disappointment. Yes I've been there and even he is my best friend. Once he borrowed money from me for capital business, he disappeared without a word. This makes me very disappointed and hurt, considering he is my best friend. Maybe if he berterusterang to delay payment, I will understand.

There is a quote from William Shakespeare "Neither a borrower nor a lender be for loan oft loses both itself and friend" (Hamlet)I liked your attitude anyway, looking at the positive side of this rather unpleasant situation. You nipped it in the bud no doubt but surely your own friend must have been alerted by you. Have you not? And if so what was the reaction?

This has happened to me as well and I find that it was really not a friend and learned never loan anyone any money unless its your family!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hello,you know i can relate to the experience what you had coz it also happened to me many times... i don't know coz everytime someone most specially my friends or relatives begging me or asking for my help about the money. i can't say no or make any excuses coz i easily get touched. so even a small or sometimes big amount i do lend them.but what hurts me and made me dissappointed was even a simple word like sorry i can't still pay or whatever... just to let me know that they still know their obligation to me is enough for me.but they're just like nothing happen when they see me so i felt like they're just taking me forgranted and taking advantage of me. coz they always see me nice and they never see me getting mad.so sometimes it really makes me feel bad coz you know i'm just being nice and want to help them but they didn't see that.so to calm myself and make feel better i just think that it's ok,it's just money i can still earn it.i feel like i'm lucky and blessed coz i have helped them so i just leave it to the lord...

Whooaa that is bad of your "friend" to do something like that. I sometimes lend my friends money & they actually paid it back to me so I can't really say what would I feel if it happens to me. What "important" thing he said he's going pay actually? Next time if a friend ask to borrow your money, maybe you ought to ask them to clarify the purpose. But if your intention is to find an end to an unwanted friendship then I'm with you. Even if it has to cost a little. LOL!

I had the same experiencs, but also fell that there is no reason to deny a spft heart would have borrowed,but for my good frind, I do not care about whether or returned,but I think a man should have the credit,not because of that small amount of money to lose a friend A feeling.

It happened to us a few times in the past and it really makes us think before helping out anyone again. We have never ever got the money back from them and we will never speak to them ever again, its their lose in losing us as good friends. If you do borrow anyone money think about it alot, whats the chance of you really getting it back, whats the amount your lending?, what would happen if you lost that money? My friend the other day lent alot of money to her a pal and i personally think shes crazy as she needs it back by a set day and this pal as let her down before in the past.

I think you are too kind person. I will angry if I were you. Of course I will end of the friendship relation. Just for your life experience for the future. next time do not too trust others, money is sensitive thing.