Do guys like to borrow money more than woman?

vingyan.. your hub is a easy going person ya.. for me, I don't have many friends that come to me when money is concern.. I make sure I let them know I am not in a good shape either! Well, not bad, but I just don't have extra to borrow. I think this habit happens on those day towards the payday. I got a friend who like to do this to some of the group of friends, and we later learned on this tactic, and refuse to actually lent a hand. as for whether man borrow more than woman, I am in the opinion depends on what kind of friends you have. I know some girls like to go through this friend's borrowing too!

Hello vingyan. I am sorry for the situation that you are facing. To be frank, it is annoying to me when one borrows money, but has to be urged to return it. I don't borrow money from others, but from my own family and I also lend my money to my siblings when they need it and ask for it. I used to have a student many years ago, who borrowed money from me without giving it back to me. Ever since then, if there are students asking to borrow money from me, I will have them write a note of borrowing money in case it is proof...

The big question is when they borrow money do they pay it back? How allies it is called mooching and I think they see your husband is a soft touch. You say they do not pay it back without coercion so I guess they are hoping he will forget it. I work hard for my money and I get annoyed when people play me for a fool. If they need money until payday that is what credit cards are for. If a bank or credit card won't loan them money why should you if they are untrustworthy? Unpaid money can destroy a friendship.

i'm very sorry to hear that! it is very annoy that when the guys borrow money form you huby not not return it back as soon as possible.i'm earn not very much, only can be support my daily life,so i don't like to borrow someone.except only a litter when somebody forget to bring money and urgent to spend and will return back very fast(less than one or two).of course, the money should be very little. good luck and have a nice day!

I don't know if that's ture. Maybe because guys are more weak at controling their money, they spend their moeny without aware of it, then when they really need money for something, they have to borrow some money for that thing. And i think guys who like drinking and smoking will be worse.

i think women and men just the same....yah i feel annoyed if somebody borrowed money from me annoyed that i cant let them borrow bcoz that time i have nothing to let them borrow ...but if i have extra cash, will i can let them borrow especially for there emergency uses only and of course even they are my friends i need them to sign an agreement about the payment especially if it is a big amt....

I think you should talk about it for 2 reasons: you are a couple and you are annoyed. If he still wants to lend money to them, handling yourself is what matters now. Let him get annoyed or just let him handle it at all. Besides if it's his money, let him do the charity as long as you and your kids are well supplied of your needs.

hello vingyan06, don't know anyone from my male friends who borrow money. maybe because, we have a cooperative here in the company we are working who is offering a lot of loans - from long term to short term and in a very minimal interest rate. what i know is that women tends to borrow money more than men as per my experience. some were paying on time and others are not. if they do that it annoys me a little beat. can't do anything but to understand them anyway.

I think it is both sexes that borrow money from each other and it is both sexes that never pay it back.There are lots of people out there that borrow money off me and my other friends yet they seem to spend their money on aload of rubbish and run out of money.

No, I think if I have not money .or my friend ahve money ,and if we want to borrow monmey ,we 'll borrow from the male .not woman, we are male ,so face the woman ,we don't know how to say this .in here. we always feel if we borrow money from the woman, it's feel so strange

I think women have a lot more pride and don't like to ask for help. They are considered helpless to begin with and some would seen the asking for money as a part of weekness. I know the same could be said about the guys. But I think more guys borrow more money because they have that eye of manipulation down and women just aren't as good in that sector. Women tend to be honest about stuff than men.

So far, none of my friends borrowed money from me, but my servant maid frequently asks money but repays it promptly and so also our gardener. i don't get annoyed because they are poor people and when we ourselves are running short of money at the end of the month though we earn more, compared to them, what about their plight besides they are repaying it promptly before I ask them

We like to borrow and pay back with interest! Us upstanding guys will not leave you lying down. I know that in being in a partnership, there is borrowing with a deadline to pay back. Just as you have earned you should receive. But that is just me speaking.

Now a days no variation men and woman. both are equal women allso placed in highi position

I have only enough for myself and my friends knew that very well so would not borrow from me. If I have I would not mind helping those in desperate situations.

I think it is about the same or perhaps with people I know the women borrow more from each other than from men, but men borrow more from women than from each other. The line from Shakespeare to be "Neither a borrower nor a lender..." is very intelligent, however. I hope your hub told that false friend NO! I might buy an old friend dinner, but I would not loan money. That is a fast way to lose a friend, because then if they cannot pay back they will turn against you as an excuse for their failure.

vingyan06 hi oh yes my husband used to give money to some people he barely knew, and usually they did not pay him back. I would never have borrowed money from a stranger let a lone a close friend,and if I had, I would darned well pay it back as soon as possible. I would get so upset with him as he should have known better too.

I will think first and discover my friends history and background.If he/she always pay what he/she borrowed I will considered it.Bit it depends how much many they want to borrow.If more than 1000 I will annoyed.