Do you get "Angry"when you received responses against your feelings?

@Baluyadav (3643)
India
October 17, 2009 11:28am CST
Some times we may get responses which are completely against our ideas.How you face and give comments on their responses? Have a nice day.
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@mohan89 (240)
• India
17 Oct 09
hey balu yadav. I don't get angry when i'll get odd responses because that is their way of thinking. May be they might be wrong but i should respect every response i get.
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@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
18 Oct 09
Hi,mohan differences of opinion is common,for that simple reason,there is no point in getting angry.Have a nice time.
@oindy54 (3445)
• India
17 Oct 09
No I do not get angry.Instead I find it really interesting when differing opinions come in.It helps me to know how others think and opens up my mind to newer possibilities.I think that is what this community is there for... to widen our views and perceptions through sharing.Have a great day!
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@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
18 Oct 09
Hi,oindy,we have to give respect to others opinion,so there is no point in getting angry.Have a nice time.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
17 Oct 09
Personally unless it is something totally rude or downright negative or offensive, I feel everyone here is entitled to their own opinion and since we have so many people here from all around the World in order to communicate and share here we will not always agree for sure. For me if there is a discussion started here I do not agree with, unless I feel I can comment with a Good response back I will choose to not respond as personally I feel we should all be allowed to talk about anything in here we want unless it breaks the TOS here as well.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
17 Oct 09
My thoughts entirely!
• United States
17 Oct 09
I also agree that it depends on the manner in which people express those opinions--if it degenerates into "no, YOU'RE an idiot" then it feels unproductive to me and nothing gets done. We've seen a lot of that stateside since the summer began, and I think it's a shame that people have found it so difficult to express their points of view without resorting to insults and offensive imagery. Both sides of the political debate are guilty of this, but in my opinion neither side is represented by it, because there are definitely people on both sides who want to discuss the issues without waving swastikas and slapping each other. Unfortunately, those people rarely get any press.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
18 Oct 09
I do not make a whole lot of discussions anymore because I just do not have the time to go through and read and respond to everyone who responds to it. You are right though. Some of the comments are hurtful to your feelings.
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@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
18 Oct 09
Hi,steph,differences of opinions may prevail,but there is no need to hurt others.Have a nice day.
@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
18 Oct 09
I don't get angry or uspset, because this is a place where we can express oursevles and that is what it all about. Everyone's opinion will be different and that is what makes us all unique. What a world this would be, if we all thougt the same. I feel that if they disagree with me that is fine, as I am sure I have done the same thing enough as well. We should all be able to express our views without others getting upset about it, as it really doesn't accomplish anything to do that at all. It just causes problems, and we sure don't need that here. I will neer get angry with those that feel diffeerntly than me. Good luck to you and hapyp mylotting.
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@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
21 Oct 09
Hi,nice response,rosekiss.As you said if there is a same opinion in all of us,where is the scope for differences.This world is full of various stands and versions.That is variety.All the best and have a nice time.
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
7 Nov 09
Hi,Congrats for getting the Best response Mark for your quality response.Have a nice time and happy mylotting.
@Wordlinx (506)
• India
17 Oct 09
Though I have not participated in more participation, I feel we need not get angry on other just because of the reason , "they have opinion against ours"..This is not the good habit also.Everyone is having their own right to express their views, opinions here in mylot. What will happen if the others also get angry on us , for having the opposite thoughts? Will it be a fair one? I feel the reason for the success of mylot is the right given to all of us to express our opinion without considering anything.If I have anything against the others view here, I want to tell, then I will do it and I will never consider about the anger of others
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@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
18 Oct 09
hi,yes,every body has their own ideas and those may not match with us.So there is no point in getting angry.Have a nice time.
@amaine (2027)
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
Well, we really never get the chance to avoid those kind of comments. Sometimes, they might be a bit irritating but however, everyone has their own freedom of speech. I just let it be. I cannot go against that person's opinion, coz it's his.. :D If ever I would receive a comment totally contradicting my own discussion, I would politely give out my opinion and CLEARLY POINT OUT that not all people think alike..
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
17 Oct 09
I have never expected everyone else to have the same ideas as me or to agree with the way I think. We are each unique and each one of us has their own ideas to which we are entitled to. I would never get angry because another use did not think the same way as me. It would be a sad world if we all thought the same about everything surely? We are here to discuss and there would be nothing to talk about if we all have the same idea so when someone thinks differently that is when we can discuss. That is what we earn for here so I welcome those who have something different to say in a pleasant manner.
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• India
17 Oct 09
I am least bothered what kind of response i receive. whenever i receive a response, i read it. if there is anything worth responding, then i will. else i will ignore it. i have come across such instances here many times. it not unusual for people to react that way. but sometimes, i too will join and instigate the other, just for fun.
@dlr297 (5409)
• United States
18 Oct 09
I do not get angry at some one because they have a different opinion, or if they do not agree with what i believe. Every one is different here, from different countries, different cultures, and different religions....Ect..Ect... That is what is so nice here you get different points of views.
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@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
well,sad to say i am little bit affected sometimes i get irritated lol by some criticism or other words that low level feedback.but it just fine were human so we have the feelings and emotion it is fine to feel that way.anyway i cannot blame them its his opinion so everyone opinion is unique and helpful.
• United States
17 Oct 09
Well I understand on some topics why they would be against it. It is 100% OK with me because most of the time it is just their opinion and other peoples opinions don't hurt me. So with that being said, if I was to go to their topics, I would most likely not be against there ideas unless it is completely stupid and I would never push the - button on there topics because it might just create hate between me and them and thats not what I am looking for on this website.
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