Its Diwali. A great festival in India and I am very depressed. What to do?

Hi biman. First of all happy Diwali. Yar mere dadaji ko bhi mare hue bas 3 mahine hue hain . I can understand how that feels. Par tumko dheeraj se kaam lena hoga. tumhare mataji aur sister tum par depend kar rahe hain. Mujhe jab kisi ko khush rakhne ki zaroorat hoti hai to mai unki sabse pasandi dar cheez unhe tohfa deta hoon . Usse i guess woh log thoda tho khush honge. Try dis dude I hope you like it Happy my lotting!

im sorry i have no suggestions, but i do know your pain. every halloween i get depressed and xmas here. halloween was kind of my and late hubbies favorite holiday as we loved dressing up and handing candy to the kids. how long does your holiday last? what does it celebrate?

to ease the pain that we go through in life, we have to face the cause of it squarely. it is best that you and all the members of the family should talk about the whole incident and pour out all those hurt feelings as how each one feels about the loss of one dear life. shedding of precious tears is an experience which should not be avoided. this is the only way that the deeply scarred hearts can undergo healing little by little through the years. each one of you will slowly feel the easing of the hurt when you will all have unloaded as to how each one feels about the loss of the father in the family. just remember that tears are good at washing away even the most stubborn stain of pain so deeply seated in our hearts.

Hi biman, It is always difficult to lose a loved one but life must go on. My suggestion is to remember you father with love, remember the good times that you had together and think that perhaps your father would want you to enjoy the festival. I don't know very much about your beliefs but I expect that he is happy now and would want you to be happy as well. I think you and your mother and sister should enjoy the festival just as your father would if he were still here. Blessings.

I have also lost loved ones and though I miss them I still celebrate life, the ones that are gone would not have me waste what I have by missing them. Would your Father want that for his family? If you cannot believe that he lived his life as he needed to and now has gone on then at least be happy for your own life that you got through him. Celebrate.