what are your concerns about your grandparents thinking like a child?

old one think like a child - concerns on old one
@amyson (3498)
Philippines
October 17, 2009 9:09pm CST
i am experience some of this recently my father had a had 2 strokes now his showing some childish manifestation.he forgotten sometimes our names or interchange by it.his also sometimes forgot that he urinate on his pants.it gives us so much concerns why his acting like this one his not that old he just 62 years old.some old one that ive known they were 70s but they just think good and act as mature one.do you experiences something like what i been experiencing right now?
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
18 Oct 09
Hello Amy. We all hate to see our elders develop such problems as they age, but it is common, especially when someone has had one or more strokes, no matter their age. A stroke causes injury and damage to the brain, and as you know, the brain regulates everything in the body. So what this gentleman does now is not within his control. Some healing may occur that will eliminate some of these problems, but I know how worrisome this is as I saw my father-in-law go through it after a stroke. Still, these persons want and need their dignity, so just continue to treat him with understanding, kindness and love. My best to you, Karen
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
18 Oct 09
yes,a lot of patience of course and love.strokes makes him think like childish we have some worry if he will also forgotten his daughter names in the future.we always remind him our names everytime he forgot it or we just help him up to remember what he wants to say.
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• India
19 Oct 09
Hi Amyson.. I have'nt experianced such...but everyone shoud be ready for those type of situations...My grandpa, i dont know what exactly happened to him but what i know is as age built on he started forgetting everything, he started acting like a child...but he dint forget where he kept his favourate things. Man its really very difficult to think about it....God Bless
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@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
19 Oct 09
yes elders definitely forgotten things but their memory in the past are still fresh but they have difficulty of remembering recent events or things.it is hard to accept but life is like that.
• India
20 Oct 09
Very True, is very difficult to accept but no one can escape with that....yes life is like this....
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@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
20 Oct 09
yes i do agree with you,life is like this happiness is just temporary.all things are temporary even our lives too.
• Philippines
19 Oct 09
well, the same things with me..as my father is also experiencing the same things..i hate to admit he is suffering from high blood pressure..but, you know instead of him getting high blood. I think his companion in the house are the one likely to get a high blood pressure because of his childish manner, getting back to being a childish and most of the times hard headed..well, just a proper mix of patience,understanding, respect and care is what he need after all parents or grandfather care for us when we still young..so it is time to return the favor and care for them while they still around..
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@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
20 Oct 09
yes i definitely agree with you..all the wonderful things they gave us we should return this by taking care of them.loving untiringly and more patience.
@joezon50 (378)
• Hong Kong
18 Oct 09
I am very concern about it,.I remember the case of our Father Dear.Because he got stroke too before when hes still around only he dont have to forgot our names.Your lucky enough because you can still see him.Our father go at the age of 59.Your father is not going to act like a child only because hes a sick person and he,himself dont like what was going on.Try to take care of him and dont be upset if he forgot your name.happy posting my friend.
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
18 Oct 09
well,sometimes we get upset to some point why he starting to act like a child.we just do our part by always reminding him our names from time to time.
@joezon50 (378)
• Hong Kong
18 Oct 09
First, will be us who will understand to them because we are Family right?Who do we think will look after to our parents except their Children.Hope you'll be avaible to undertake this and not to be upset anymore.
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@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
18 Oct 09
yes,we need a lot of patience because without them we do not live here on earth.
@shilley (155)
• India
18 Oct 09
Hey amyson,take care for your father..when it comes to your question i do not think there is anything to do with age.I think due to stroke attack your father is experiencing lot of physical discomfort which may be the reason for his behaviour.Spend some quality time with him and have a good conversation,give him a chance to explain his problems.More than all this, i think it is the will power which keeps one going even at times of illness irrespective of how old they are.Since he is affected with stroke attack might there is some nerve damage in the brain or some problem in the transmission of nerve impulse which would have resulted in memory loss.Better take him to a good neurologist get everything checked.
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@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
18 Oct 09
i well do that,thanks for the advice yes your right he had clot in the his brain so nerve transmission is very slow and delay to catch up.