How many times do you blame yourself?
@nheansocheath (308)
Cambodia
October 17, 2009 10:23pm CST
Many people always blame themselves when they did something wrong. Also, I do too.
But I rarely blame myself just sometimes because I think that if I blame myself, I still cannot solve the problem. If I take that time to find the solution for the problem, it will be better than keeping blaming. So what about you?
3 responses
@LovingLife139 (1504)
• United States
18 Oct 09
Interesting discussion question. I honestly don't remember the last time I've blamed myself for something I did that could be considered "wrong." My honest opinion of my life is that I have no regrets...any mistakes I make are merely me being human and I can learn from these to make things better. As for starting a bad situation, I think before I say or do anything and therefore do not need to feel at fault for bad situations because I simply don't make them intentionally.
I agree with you: blaming yourself, or anyone, for that matter, is a waste of time and energy much like complaining or worrying. Why do it? Just fix the problem or avoid it in the future and be grateful you could make the mistake now before it magnified itself later. 
@nheansocheath (308)
• Cambodia
18 Oct 09
Yes, it is absolutely true! We need to solve the problem not the blame. So wasting time in solving the problem is better then wasting time in blaming. Thanks for your support.
@micatolentino (66)
• Philippines
9 Feb 12
Who wants to be blamed by someone who tend to blame others always. In most cases, people who easily blame others is the one most to be blamed. Blaming others is an easy escape to avoid responsibility from a difficult situation.
@taztheone (1721)
• India
18 Oct 09
I would hardly blame myself for anything because blaming won't be a solution for anything. If I have done something, then I have done it & if it went wrong, I would try to think solutions for it. After all every thing has a solution.
