2nd Chance
By karbuks
@karbuks (270)
Philippines
October 17, 2009 10:32pm CST
Hi mylotters.
My friend and her ex-boyfriend split up for almost two years already but i just found out today that they are back together again. Both are my close friends that is why i'm so happy for them. Truly love is sweeter the second time around, right? have you ever experience giving a second chance? how does it feel?
4 responses
@Jankar (583)
• Philippines
19 Oct 09
Hi there! I've never experience a second chance before or of some sort. So I really don't know what my real reaction in this kind of situation. But if given the chance, maybe that just depends on how i feel towards the one i'm having a relationship with. If I truly love her and if she really is the one for me for life, ofcourse then i'd get back with her for sure. But if i think she's just in it for my money then NO WAY! But if she really is great in bed, well maybe just for fun,HAHAHA!
@karbuks (270)
• Philippines
19 Oct 09
hello jankar. welcome back. you've been away for a long time huh. what makes you soooo busy? hehehe. yeah, you're right, if you truly love the person, then i think you will find ways to win her back. But if you know that she don't like you anymore, then why chase after? you're not worth her time anyways. on the other hand, if you just plan to win her back because she's good in bed, then i tell you, karma is on your way.hehehe. you will just hurt the girl that much. I think a guy will know if the girl is only after his money. you have that instinct right?
@asweetie (1187)
• India
18 Oct 09
hi karkbuks,
well i have never been in love but a very close friend of mine has been and he has forgiven his girl time and again for her extra caricular activities and they were back together and they were quite happy till she fell back on her old ways again and kept giving lame excuses and looking for excuse in everything to break up.. even one of the excuse is she is his whole world and he loves her too much.. so i dont know giving second chance to someone else is a real nice idea in a long run.
@karbuks (270)
• Philippines
19 Oct 09
oh. I'm sorry for your friend. He had given her chance already but it's as if the girl won't grab it. I'm not really that expert when it comes to that situation but if i were in his case, i would let her go, though it hurts to do that but maybe, she will grow into a more mature person and she will know how to care to the person who loves her the most.
@JohnJeff (720)
• Malaysia
18 Oct 09
If you get the second chance don't let it go again.Every person have right to get the second chance not only in relationship but other things to.As human being we are born to make mistake.I'm glad to hear your friend close again.make sure your friend take the opportunity.
@karbuks (270)
• Philippines
19 Oct 09
I agree with you! each of us deserves second chance. after all, we are human beings, sometimes capable of committing mistakes and inflicting pains to our friends, families and to those people whom we met. If a second opportunity is given, then we should try to do the best we can in order not to commit the same mistake again.
@jesseverette (111)
• Philippines
18 Oct 09
Hi there,
i would say, there is no hard and fast rule in a relationship. We don't know the two's personal circumstances but we can be happy for them. i do not agree that its better the second time around.
@karbuks (270)
• Philippines
19 Oct 09
I think forgiveness is one of the key why they are back together again. they give each other a chance to listen and somehow assess their own feelings. Maybe for some, it still won't work the second time around, but i think if we just know how to listen, forgive and express our feelings in the best way we can, then i think it's possible for the relationship to work out the second time.
