Am I deserving to feel guilty because my friend's life became worst?
By mrssator2002
@mrssator2002 (281)
Philippines
October 18, 2009 10:49am CST
I had a childhood friend Chris. Chris has a talent she love singing and fate has given her a chance to show her talent. And time came she became a little bit famous in our place and got no time for me. As expected I was her no.1 fan and supporter. As time goes by she changed a lot everytime we meet in some places she act that she don't know me and pretending that she didn't saw me. I got hurt and told her wait for your karma.Few years later I heard the news that Chris eyes getting blurred and now totally blind. And when I pass by to their house I saw her but she didn't see me like the way she act the last time we met. I'm feelin guilty, do I deserve to feel this way?
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6 responses
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
18 Oct 09
Hi,
I don't think you should be plead guilty with her situation.
It just happen that,out of hurtin feelings you uttered such words.
But i don't believed you are the one responsible for her "karma"(bad situation).
Maybe she really had gone too far by her fame and God just give her lesson not to be boastful,and that she should learn to look back at those people who supported her all the way to her fame.
Why not approach her,let her know that you haven't changed,that,you are still the same old friend she used to know.
In that manner,it will lessen the burden of your conscience and also,maybe will give her enlightment not to put herself on pedestal like God.
Have a good weekday to start and happy mylotting
@mrssator2002 (281)
• Philippines
18 Oct 09
Yes, I did talk to her and told her I'm still the old friend she knew. She said she is thankful but we never became like what we are before. Some of my neighbors said she is very shameful of what she did to me.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
19 Oct 09
Thanks for the mark dear.
yah,it is really hard to make-up from broken pieces.
Good thing is,you have cleared your mind and,she also learned her lesson.
Have a good day always :)
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yah,it is really hard to make-up from broken pieces.
Good thing is,you have cleared your mind and,she also learned her lesson.
Have a good day always :)
@mohan89 (240)
• India
18 Oct 09
hey mrssaator!
That's very sad that your friend lost her eyes.
But why are u feeling guilty for that. By saying nothing happens , if such is the case then no one in this world will suffer, coz every one on this planet hurts some one.
In your case its just an accident types as you said it is your frnd's Karma.
happy mylotting dear frnd!
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
19 Oct 09
well no unless you wished it upon her. but yeah i am a true beliver what goes around comes around. but even though she cant see doesnt mean she still cant sing.
@xannebull (1793)
• Philippines
19 Oct 09
you have a strange situation with your friend. you must not feel guilty about it because it was just destined to her for getting blind, maybe because she has some illness before which she didn't know yet that make her blind after some time.
@tatazbrush (126)
• Indonesia
20 Oct 09
wow i think you fall in love with him because you give lots of good opinion about him, i think he also have good opinion about you, keep your eyes to him, may be he is your true love =)
