sharing

hi gymnastics yes indeed my husband and I were best friends' and to him Ihad no secrets, and he and I could tell each 'other everything as we respected and also loved each other very much. not all people can do that,but two best friends married can do that.

Somewhere in Somerset Maugham's short stories I remember reading a line that says 'One does not have to be unnecessarily frank' which in other words means one does not have to tell everything even to a spouse. As long as those secrets do not hamper a relationship between husband and wife I find no reason why each and everything should be told. If you get a firing from your boss for example would you rush back home and open up? Not until you want some advice from him I bet. There are things between a parent and child, between friends, between siblings and so on which are not to be shared if nothing positive comes out of sharing them with others even with ones spouse!!!

i think there are some things that you should be able to keep your self, eg. losing your virginty. i don't tell my partner everything, cause he'll use it against me at some stage when he wants an arguement. then it just gets me up set. like i don't tell him what the psychic has told me, about my relationship stuff. i did tell him one bit but he's not mentioned that in a while which is good. just depends on how much you trust each other, and if you know he's not going to use it against you later on.

I think sharing your secrets with your spouse is okay because you are already bind together as one. So what your secret is must be told to your partner.

hi gymnastics. i will not share my little secret to my spouse and i do not think it is necessary to share your things with your spouse. i would share my secret with my female friends, close friends of course. they can understand me sometimes rather than spouse. on the other hand, he is too tired if he has to listen all what i am saying.

yes it is true, it is very important. like what you said sharing everything with our partner makes us very close to each other. the bond between each other makes even stronger and tighter. for me, being open to each other makes the relationship grow deeper and lasts forever.

well yes sharing is good. but you should not share everything to your partner because as a human being you also have the privacy in your life. but for married couple i guess you need to clarify things in your hand. also you might want to put priorities on it.

I think you should as long as what you tell your spouse will not hurt his/her feelings.