How to treat bad dormate?

China
October 19, 2009 3:19am CST
i am a student who live in the school's dormitory. recently i find i cann't bear one of my dormate. he is very selfish. he always make noise when we sleep. like singing, playing games, hearing songs even telephone in the dormitory when we sleep. i have told him many times that what he did would influence us,but he didn't care.i am very pained.i don't know how to solve this problem. can you help me?
2 responses
hypum356
@hypum356 (42)
• China
19 Oct 09
Yeah, I have had the same problem when I was in college, one of my roomate played computer games all night long and he usually invited a lot of his friends to our room when I was about to going to bed. I think you should speak to him about the seriousness of his action just like you did, if he didn't accept, you need to ask the administrator of the dormitory to change your roomate, it's your right, you should be brave enough to ask for it
xiaomianboke
@xiaomianboke (46)
• China
19 Oct 09
Firstly thank you for your responce. I and other dormates have said to him many times but he didn't accept. I think although I have right to change the room,but there are some problems. Firstly if I change other dormates may change also but there is not enough doimitory left. Secondly if I change others would live with him. He will disturb others.It's selfish.What I want to do is change him entirely. Thank you all the same.Happy to you.
dududouniwaner
@dududouniwaner (47)
• China
19 Oct 09
Terrible to hear that.Also,everybody has him right to do things,but it's bad to live with this roommate. Actually,it difficult to solve this.I just read your last disscussion,i knew that you will be a doctor in several years.So you should be more patient to treat this. There,once a slang said you should change yourselft if you can't change others.So i think you should change your mind to thinking about this roommate,make youself adapt it. Maybe change mind of yourself,things will be better as you can't change others. Good luck
xiaomianboke
@xiaomianboke (46)
• China
19 Oct 09
thank you for your responce. what you said is right. but for some human beings like me it's very difficulty to change mind. and even though you change your mind about him you cann't have a good rest.so i cann't agree with you. but thank you all the same.