Have you ever encountered someone online that makes u uncomfortable or disturb?

i never disturb any one, so they do not disturb me, but in face book ,two months ago he give me some bad word, i don't know him, i am not respond him so he does not give me bad word again =)

thats happens all the time.

I think the best thing that you are going to do is ignore him and don't give time to entertain when he call or send a text messages. The more you give time, the more he will expect that he can get you for a duration of time. Let him feel that you are ignoring him especially that you are married now. I have encounter same situation with you, I get stubborn with that guy. I told him not to disturb me anymore but he keep insisting to meet me up because he like me. But time comes I never entertain him and ignored every time he message me and now he is lost because he get tired.

Do you have many important friends there? No? Then delete your accounts and move someone else where there are plenty of your friends hang out and forget him. Or you can forward it to the admin and let them be done with him.

That must be really so annoying and so scary, Ryheanne! I just don't get why other people that. He must be really sick in the head. You said he's your friend and don't wanna delete his profile. He doesn't deserve to have a slot on your list of friends for what he's doing to you. But since you wanna get civil with him then you can probably give him a warning first and if he still doesn't heed, delete him, girl! Don't wait til it's gonna affect your marriage. Have you discussed this with your husband? I think that this is something that he should know so that you can also have additional protection and peace of mind.

just tell him how you feel tell him that you dont want be disturbed by him

hi ryheanne I have never been on any other site for social networking but mylot. Does the one you are on monitor personal messages? Could you perhaps talk to whoever monitors the site and tell them you feel you are being stalked? If he makes you uncomfortable then he is definitely stalking you and that is a criminal offense.It should somehow be reported. Maybe even your local police may be able to give you some advice. do try to contact someone about it. then let us all know, please.I worry for you. I have been lucky that I have never had this happen to me yet.

internet stalking isnt good but i would delete him why not. its him not making you feel comfortable. you could tell him you dont like the idea of calling him and you are married if he dont stop delete him from your list if he keep it up and then report him

Don't worry about it treat it like spam, that is the easiest way. But i think there is more to it if you were posting to his profile. Just delete and ignore that is my advice

Yes, on a site like this one that wasn't a payout site a user kept harassing me. On another site I was called several negative racial epithets and they threatened to kill me if they could find out where I lived. Then of course the dreaded chat rooms with men asking to see improper pics of me and trying to send improper pics of themselves tome. the internet can be very creepy.

Hi, Ryheanne! If I were you, I would just delete him off from my friends' list. He has terrified you a few times already and in some ways 'offended' you, so, I don't see why you should keep him accessing your profile and personal photos. He probably has been doing this to other people as well, hoping for someone to fall into his trap. So, it is better to extra pre-caution than to feel sorry for the person who brings you nightmare and some more did he know that you are already married?? If yes, he should respect your status instead of trying to lure you away. It could be that he has misunderstood your kindness towards him??? I haven't encountered this kind of situation in any of the social site before because I would usually add those friends whom I have known offline before and I always am careful who can access my personal details and photos. I have known a few friends, though. They would add anyone so, they would receive the same messages from some guys with phone numbers and some 'disgusting' words!!! So, whatever it is I hope you will make the right decision. Think of yourself first before it's getting worst. Take care!!!

hello ryheanne, I used to think the same, there was even a discussion that i created about having a block user feature. but i received comments from seniors saying it might cause some paranoia and misused practice of the feature, and relentless blocked newbies, which could unfair to the new ones who are innocent.so, the best method there is either to ignore them or simply just report them if they bug you

That man is truly annoying, worst he knows that you are married. He is not in a right thinking. Saying "I love you" and stalking a married woman is sick! If I were you I would delete him in my friends list. So what if I will offend him, what he was doing is completely below the belt. Completely ignore him. No worries, as long as you did not give him any personal information about yourself, he is completely harmless. Whatever he says, don't answer back, he will get tired in time. He will stop on his own once he realized that it is not working on you and you are not giving him any attention at all. Happy mylotting ryheanne! I hope that man is not in here.

This happen to me many times. Some unknown people send me message of marriage proposals. And I don't like it. Some of time annoys me in my YM. There getting into my nerves. And some will post a comments on my profile that bothers me alot. But I have to delete the comment, if he don't stop, I rather to delete him on my friends list. I have already done that.

Isn't it possible to block this person.

I've had a similar experience but mine's through chat. He keeps on chatting with me even if I don't want to chat with him. And it really bugs me!