He ended it, said was never ganna be another chance yet got Jealous!

Wow I just got back to this now thank all of you for all your responses, normally I would reply to each one but my back is killing me, anyway, heres the total update on this I think all of you are right, little bits he is a very complicated young guy who hasnt ever had a "real" relationship and I always believed hes just scared of what hes feeling: I waited a few days and he brought it up over the following weekend. He asked me why I believed it was jealousy. I replied to him briefly with lol just the reaction you gave off resembled jealousy. but wth was up with that neway? He replied it shocked him, that he didn't expect me to move on so fast(its been three months 26th of Oct.) And he was a little "Confused" about it. He continued to talk to me that weekend, for like 16 hours in total over the three day period.(He never talks to me that much on msn even when we were together) as hes usually playing the MMORPG game we met on that I quit after the break up, and he hasnt bothered much with on the weekend since I quit. So then I don't hear much from him all the following week, and I act like its no big deal. The following weekend he returns once more, talk to me till late night saturday night, disapearing all day sunday, from sleep and reappearin the early hours monday morning which I just so happened to be on because my son had awoken in the middle of the night. Well now on this MMORPG game, we always had a inside joke that he believed one of the npcs had been trying to get with me, he conviently brings this up says he munipuated the graphics to turn it into something ugly so his "next gf" wont run off on him. I took this as him trying feebly to make me jealous, so I didn't play into his game, I loled and said careful hamsters are cute, he then informed me he changed it again to a fish. so now another thing about "us" was that when we would argue or I was annoyed with him I would say "fine what ever." A little while later he gives me this big speech that all weekend he seen 40 different girls and not one matched his standards of "whateverness", so again I acted like I hadn't caught on to what he was talking about, and replied awww better luck next time...all he returned with was O.o night? Which brings me to the last event before his week long silence. sunday night he began sending me videos from youtube(this is normal for him but its usually stuff he likes) this time however he starts sending me oldies he likes, oldies which are kinda like "confused love songs, and songs about having stuff losing it trying to replace it etc. (saying things like, idk why but this gets to me lately, I been listening to this alot etc) So Now I'm in total confusion, hes so silent during the week but opens up alot on the weekend. I know hes stuborn, and all our friends tell me hes denying how he truly feels because its scarying the hell out of him esspecially with all our problems that would need alot of work. He drinks on the weekends I know this, and am wondering if he is speaking his mind more on the weekend, as many do express their true feelings when drinking =/ and possibly I should try to ask questions at these times possibly when he seems more open to talk about it. Thing is I did identify the problem, he would keep something he didnt like to himself, I would feel something wrong I would try to get to the answers, he would get annoyed thinking he didnt do nething I shouldnt be upset deciding I just was type of person who did these things on purpose, as I decided he was just playing games I would get further angry with him start questioning him about it, he felt it was accusing him, and thus we ended up splitting up, but he claimed he dropped hints I didnt get, so i'm wondering if hes dropping hints not wanting to, or to proud to say i was wrong, i miss you i want you back =/

Thank you and it is coming and going still =(. As far as the troubles are going, I think some progression was made last night. We talked for hours, once again it had started in an agruement, which turned into talking about the problems we had. He didn't say much, letting me talk mostly and adding things here and there. When I never heard from him for 15 minutes I thought hed just stopped listening to what it was I was saying, my reasonings for acting the way he thought was who I truly was. I did my best to finally explain to him, that yes I was in the wrong, though so was he and explained how certain things he neglected to do, made me feel and how those feelings turned me into a emotional wreck. However I was surprised when I had recieved a reply reading: ...I'm sorry I had no idea, I'm not much of a talker, I perfer just goofing off and acting a fool..I guess I never made that clear enough, but I did listen to you, even when I did not respond. After he made that comment it was almost as if, the last few months had never happened. We started playing online games together for a few more hours even though we were both tired, we were joking around, and actually even flirting with each other a bit. It was odd, but it also gave me back that feeling, I always had with him and him with me. The reason Nicklebacks song "Too Bad" seems to fit us, ironically. The feeling that no matter what ever happens, what is ever said between us, things always manage to work themselves out in time, and we always end up, back in place, like nothing happened. Its kind of like, We need the other to show us our errors and help us get through em, to make us better ppl.

Hi indiandevil! It is nice to hear form you again. I hope your back pain is completely gone by now. As you said, your man talks a lot and is more open when drunk... so I think you better take that chances. Ask all the questions running in your head... Better record your conversation with him so that he could not deny it the following day!

that's tru btw, bet on it

No doubt that the absolute answer, I will be waiting to receive best response...lol