what sacrifice will you do for your love partner to make relationship last?
By amyson
@amyson (3498)
Philippines
October 19, 2009 11:28pm CST
i am in a relationship so i make every effort to make our relationship last.i see to it i am always there to support here.i sacrifice my career once just to make up to him.his my everything and i will do whatever it takes to make our relationship last.what sacrifice you made in your relationship that made it last?
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9 responses
@Fulltank (2882)
• Philippines
20 Oct 09
The same thing you do. Love should always have some form of sacrifices, it doesn't have to be happy always and it doesn't have to be a one way communication. As much sacrifice as I would make, I expect that my other half should do the same. Now I would not trade of any other material happiness just to be with my family. And I would sacrifice everything in my possession just be be with them always.
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
20 Oct 09
yes,we have the same opinion,since we love our partner we can make the relationship last.il do whatever it takes so that to keep him on my side.some we also sacrifice things for our family or loved ones.what makes them happy and contented that how is love means.

@shuying8710 (260)
• China
21 Oct 09
hello amyson,i'm not sure if my below choice is a sacrifice or not.
after gratuated from the college,i have spent two years to work in a city which is far from the city where my BF worked in,it took me 4 hours to cover this distance.at that time,i visited my BF once per month.
one day, to take care each other better,we made a decision that i quited my job and moved to the city we live now.
it looks i sacrifice for him,but it is really not.i like this city more than the last city and we bought an small apartment last year, all these things depend on i move into this city.
so,forget the sacrifice things,just thinking it is not a sacrifice but a chance to live a more happy life.
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@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
20 Oct 09
I did not take promotion and allowed him to take since it was transferable. I remained in the same place and allowed him to work in many places with promotions. I took care of the children almost as a single parent.
I took care of him whenever he fell sick and also his parents were with me and his people were visiting every month, somebody or other and being a working woman, I never showed my face and done everything.
Never went for any training or mother's place unless there was any necessity like function.
Treated his friends very well. All the work whether house work or marketing etc. was done by me.
The list is never ending. But do you think all men realise wife's sacrifices? Only few like your husband will agree the adjustments by wife.
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@carrine (2743)
• Philippines
20 Oct 09
ows?
well its hard to say anything because as of now im not in a relationship and its been a while that i dont have any commitments. only let me say "flings".
hmmm as what ive experienced with my past, its hard to give everything. a piece of advise please dont do that. its not worth it. always give your 100% for yourself first before anybody else.
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@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
20 Oct 09
For me their is no ideal relationship and i do not believe in long engagement tend to be boring on the long time. Thus, if two partner deeply love each other need to make it real and get more closer to plan for their future. I would like both of us to plan so that our communication is intact. I do not like to make a sacrifices as both of us should agree that both sacrifices and not only rely on the other to be the only one to make sacrifices.
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@marianna45 (1399)
• Romania
20 Oct 09
Love ask sacrifice, and if is real love, peoples must to help this relation. I am ready to make any kind of sacriffice if somebody really deserve my feelings.
@reckon21 (3477)
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
Honestly I really hate making sacrifices I am not good with it. I don't like to change things just for the whim of another person. I knew I can be selfish at times.
And I also knew that in order for the relationship to grow and last one must sacrifice for the others. There's nothing wrong with doing sacrifices as long that it's been valued and not taken for granted.
If my partner wants me to change my bad habits and I think I can do it I will. IF she wants me to turn in to a more responsible and good loving person, why not but I don't things to be rushed. I can't changed overnight.
@cheriezhao (246)
• China
20 Oct 09
yeah,we all need to sacrifice something to make relationship last,if i am in a relationship,i would do everything for him,it is necessary,but i think that man should do the same like u,if you always make every effort to make your relationship last,but another pareter don't know how to sacrifice to u,i guess this relationship can't last.
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@mavieserrano728 (670)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
I really can't tell what exactly I can sacrifice unless the situation arises. But in general, of course I will be more than willing to sacrifice anything for my partner. I'd be more than wiling to adjust and do whatever I can so that I would be able to make my partner happy and contented.
@mavieserrano728 (670)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
Yes I'll do anything for my partner because I can feel that he is worth it. Love cannot be measured whether it's equal or not,as long as you give your best shot, then there will be no regrets in the end.
