for women

Hi Binacheri, I'm a newbie here and this is actually the first time that I stumbled upon a discussion about "women". The topic might be a bit cliché for some but in my case, I find femininity and aging interesting lately. I just turned 21 last August and I started thinking like I'm getting old. Whoah! It seems like I'm starting to become a "woman". It feels like I'm starting to have more responsibilities. Also, the idea that I have to do something worthwhile really is bugging me. Do women really take on a lot of decision making roles all the time and handle a lot of responsibilities? Does it really have to be that way? How do you manage all the stresses? I look forward to having a short advice or even just a thought about this. Thanks!

I agree that women are the decision makers. My husband always looks to me for decisions not only for everyday life but for where we will go for vacation. We are also list makers which goes right along with decisions. What will go on our list, what is more important and least important. What are we going to dress our kids in today, what are we going to make for dinner, what are we going to where, when are we going to have time to get groceries and what groceries do we need ect ect. Life is a list and full of decisions. But you know if we woke up and didn't have any decisions to make, we would be lost and pacing all day not knowing what to do!!

Yes although in general my decisions are all about what the children should wear or eat or do that day rather than wht route i will take to work, all my other tasks like housework etc (I dont work) just fall in to place after all the other stuff i have to do its no decision to make really my children come first end of.

of course.no matter what decisions, I will choose those what I really wanna do. and sometime,one's decision is vital for one's life.